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34 M Santa Clara, CA

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Last Online
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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm just a laidback guy trying to figure life out, one day at a time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work full time at a large software company (I know - it just SCREAMS "fun") doing user research/user experience design. This is just a fancy way of saying I make stuff "user friendly"

I'm kind of a "sorta good at a lot of stuff, but master of none". To me, everything is fun at least one time. Except math tests. (Stereotype broken).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Keeping a conversation going (awkward silence sucks)
-Finding the funny side of things, with occasionally putting my foot in my mouth as an added side benefit to this.
-Epic naps
-Getting my dance on
-Last minute spontaneous trips
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Everything, except for reggaeton. Reggaeton is awful. Besides that, everything. And I mean everything. Hip hop, R&B, deep house, soulful house, classical, alternative, rock, blues, jazz, japanese, hawaiian, surf rock, all kinds of electronic music. Music is beyond essential to me.

Food: I'm a sucker for good food and especially good cocktails.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let's just assume that everyone can't go without the following:
Good food, good conversations, good music, good times, water, food, friends, etc. etc.

So in addition to that:
-A good sense of humor/wit/sarcasm
-Realistic perspective of life
-Perspective and life changing moments
-Sports (Warriors, Giants, Sharks, Niners).
-Doing something active (random sports [rock climbing, racquetball, bowling, etc], outdoor activities [hiking, camping, fishing, etc], obstacle races (just started doing this. awesome))
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most likely chilling with friends, or occasionally working, and sometimes at the gym. But most of the time it's Friday after a long week of work, and that means chilling (with/without a drink and with/without friends) or heading out somewhere for the weekend.

Nothing beats good conversation with good friends over good food though. Nothing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're cool and/or witty. If you know how to laugh, and do it often. Sense of humor is super important to me. Wit. Sarcasm. Randomness. Bottom line is if I can't make you laugh, and/or you can't make me laugh, and/or we can't laugh together (at each other, other things, or other people), then there really isn't going to be any kind of fun. Just awkward silences and a "I wish I was somewhere else" contest where everybody loses.

If you're a good mix of smarts, carefreeness/laidbackness, deepness, laziness, activeness, hungriness, etc.

Or if you just want to meet new people. Ain't nothing wrong with making new friends with people without constantly wondering if/when they're gonna hit on you.

Or if you love dancing. And you want to kick my ass on the dance floor. As in dancing. Please don't actually kick my ass.