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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:39pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm just a laidback guy trying to figure life out, one day at a time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a UX Designer/User Researcher working at a software company in the east bay. This is just a fancy way of saying I make stuff "user friendly". So basically my job is to find out what people like and/or what people hate.

Other than work, I'm trying my best to get in better shape and especially travel more. I have a love/hate relationship with running, but luckily I'm loving it more recently.

I'm always looking for new and exciting stuff to do. Indoors, outdoors, here, there, where ever - i'm down to try anything once. Recent interests: Hiking/backing, running, yoga, cooking.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Keeping a conversation going (awkward silence sucks)
-Finding the funny side of things, with occasionally putting my foot in my mouth as an added side benefit to this.
-Epic naps
-Last minute spontaneous trips
-Finding great places to eat
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Everything. Hip hop/R&B (especially old school), deep house, soulful house, classical, alternative, rock, blues, jazz, japanese, hawaiian, surf rock, all kinds of electronic music.

Food: I'm a sucker for good food and especially good cocktails.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let's just assume that everyone can't go without the following:
Good food, good conversations, good music, good times, water, food, friends, etc. etc.

So in addition to that:
-A good sense of humor/wit/sarcasm
-Perspective and life changing moments
-Sports (Warriors, Giants, Sharks, Niners).
-Doing something active (random sports [rock climbing, racquetball, bowling, etc], outdoor activities [hiking, camping, fishing, etc], obstacle races (just started doing this. awesome))
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What am I gonna eat next?

oh, and life =)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
chilling with friends over drinks/food
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're cool and/or witty. If you know how to laugh, and do it often. Sense of humor is super important to me. Wit. Sarcasm. Randomness. Bottom line is if I can't make you laugh, and/or you can't make me laugh, and/or we can't laugh together (at each other, other things, or other people), then there really isn't going to be any kind of fun. Just awkward silences and a "I wish I was somewhere else" contest where everybody loses.

Or if you just want to meet new people. Ain't nothing wrong with making new friends with people without constantly wondering if/when they're gonna hit on you.