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ForeverOptimistc

32 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:59am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Indian, Other
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Urdu (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a curious, free-spirited, genuine and down to earth soul. Thrill seeking yet responsible. Fun loving yet disciplined. Animated when I talk and I smile easily and frequently. Loyal to my friends, caring and easy going.

My background is slightly unusual; born in Pakistan, moved to Saudi Arabia, Kansas, Pittsburgh, Los Angeles and finally to San Francisco. There was a short stint in New York in there as well.

Being active is important to me and I would ideally like the same in my partner. This can mean a lot of different things. I love exploring what other people love to do and are excited about. Being excited is one of my favorite feelings. Second to being in love, of course.

Ultimately I believe it is more about chemistry than anything. Say hi and let's see what happens!

Side note: a friend advised me to expand my search into other cities and not limit myself to where I currently live. This may explain why I'm looking at your profile even though I don't live in your city.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying my time at the big, colorful "G".

Finding interesting things to do in my time outside of work - and interesting people to do them with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Smiling. Finding resourceful ways to reach goals. Looking good in a dress. Going on spontaneous trips. Being supportive of other people's interests/hobbies. I love trying new things and I get excited when someone enjoys something that I haven't done much of.

I become good at whatever I choose to focus on. I think I'm good at becoming good at things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My posture and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love trying or seeing things that are novel, different or unique.

I will travel anywhere. Seriously, I will book the next flight I can get (around my work schedule) and meet you anywhere in the world. I especially love warm weather, sunshine and tropical locations.

I love food! I especially love fine dining but incredible food can be found at any price point.

I wish I had more time to read and I am rarely without my Kindle. I'm almost always early which gives me moments to catch up on the book(s) of the moment. Any suggestions? I prefer non-fiction.

Music truly makes me happy. I love to dance and I used to be on competitive teams in college. Few people know that I can sing as well but I have stage fright. Maybe you will hear me one day when I don't know that you're listening.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to be excited about, interesting people to interact with, being active, working towards some sort of goal, freedom and love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Planning my week/ weekend, daydreaming, listening to a song in my head, thinking about work or fantasizing about you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out looking for trouble, relaxing so that I can find trouble the rest of the weekend or traveling to find trouble in another location. Or enjoying a romantic evening with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I take less than 20 minutes to get dolled up to go out (all of the dressed up pictures in my profile took that long) and 15 minutes to pack to go anywhere. I will probably be ready faster than you...and that I'm a secret romantic but it stays hidden until I fall for you.
You should message me if
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You're interesting and there is more to you than meets the eye. You're wickedly smart but don't try to prove it. You are extraordinary and looking for the same.