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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:16am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Buddhism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Born and raised in Indiana, left many years ago and spent years living in Europe (about 6) and California (about 13), as well as a few other places before landing in NYC about 6 years ago. Now happily settled in the city, but love to travel and do so about 1-3 months a year.

It would be great to find someone who shares a love of travel, and food, and
What I’m doing with my life
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Designing websites, blogging about everything, traveling, eating, thinking about life and death.
I’m really good at
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tiramisu, curing hiccups, fixing stuff
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes if they are open, my smile if I am smiling...and then some people seem to have a fetish for hairy forearms.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This changes so often it feels weird trying to keep up...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think it is a constant and worthwhile struggle to try not to be too attached to things, which is part of the reason I favor experiences like travel and a fantastic meal over solid things like real estate or expensive clothing. So I guess my list tends towards the ephemeral or untouchable:

love and friendship
good food and drink
travel/language/learning about other cultures

and if I had to pick one "object" I use a lot, i guess my iphone.

That kinda makes six, no?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Paradigms. And subverting them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I try to never have a "typical" friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Many years ago, in France, during a game of soccer, a fat French kid jumped and landed on the big toe of my right foot, forever disfiguring it. Since then I have had a slight aversion to open toe footwear.
You should message me if
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you think it would be nice to leave the world just a little bit better than you found it.