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37 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I love the energy, creativity, diversity and organized chaos of cities...

Had to move back to Oakland after living in Brooklyn 4 fantastical years--just missed it too much. Been back 2 1/2 years, and am loving it. You've been busy while I was away!

Also frequently in SF, my sibling and many good friends are in the mission.

Born and raised in Chicago, lived in Michigan during later high school and college, and then got out here as soon as I could...

Just sorry it took so long.

I'm a SEWPER huge fan of the earth. Am amazed by the bio-diversity, geography, and people.

Am eco-conscious without being dogmatic.

Sing in the shower.

Sing in class.

Sing at karaoke.

Will try and keep the mic.

You want me on your pubquiz team.

...And I want free drinks, so let's DO this!

Enjoy making people laugh.

LOVE when you tell me I make you laugh...

I am back where I belong--where everyday can feel like a vacation and I don't feel like I HAVE to go far to travel.

Still have a looong list of places to visit, experience, and integrate.

Did actually graduate from space camp.

But only because they didn't end up kicking me out first...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Picking things up, quickly.

Really enjoy acquiring new skills, engaging in activities, helping out, making connections, and learning fascinating things about seemingly insignificant things. Right now: kingdom Fungi.

I am truly a life-long learner and model it for my science, math, and rube goldberg students--I'm a middle school Montessori educator.

When I'm not loving my job, the people I work with, and my students, I'm biking, moto-ing, snowboarding, brewing, surfing (to varied degrees of success), hanging out with my friends and family, going to the gym, or climbing. I enjoy getting better-rounded, stronger, and smarter everyday.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Picking things up, quickly.

Learning from you.

Making you laugh.

Laughing at myself.



Thinking I'm good at Karaoke.

Pushing myself.

Or doing nothing, reading, watching, relaxing--better as a couple.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes, energy and sense of humor.

I'm probably laughing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Krakatoa, The Crying of Lot 49, Player Piano, Brave New World, the Road, Fahrenheit 451, Super Sad True Love Story, Catch 22, Cat's Cradle, 100 Years of Solitude, The Pearl, Professor and the Madman, Everything is Illuminated...

2001, Pee Wee's Big Adventure, Syriana, Dr. Strangelove, THX 1138, Revenge of the Nerds, Vertigo, Oh Brother...Where Art Thou?, City of Lost Children, Goodfellas, Princess Mononoke, Frenzy, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest...

Arrested Development, Daily Show, House of Cards, Louie, Parks and Recreation, Monty Python's Flying Circus, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, The League, Breaking Bad, Workaholics, Battlestar Galactica, Colbert Report, Mythbusters, the Wire, Metalocalypse...

Black Angels, MC5, Joy Division, Oh Sees, Sonic Youth, Nick Cave, Smiths, Stooges, Animals, Man...or Astro-Man?!, Velvet Underground, Run DMC, Jens Lekman, Blonde Redhead, Them, King Crimson, Pixies, Tom Waits, Catherine Wheel, Devo, Sea and Cake, Stones, Clash, Getz/Gilberto...

Really big on comedy: Hannibal Buress, Patton Oswalt, Mitch Hedberg, John Mulaney, Mike Birbiglia, Bill Hicks...

Ethiopian, pizza--the real deal, Thai, Indian, Mexican, Korean, Ja...wait, this is a silly question. Food is delicious.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
National Geographic
A new challenge
Unwinding afterwards
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make it even better.

Plate tectonics.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Scheming, planning, then doing.

Maybe at a concert venue, biking around.

Cooking for/at a party.

Definitely enjoying myself--it was a hard fought and won week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not terribly private. That being said, don't know where to start...
You should message me if
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You have a love and respect and admiration for life, and want me in yours.

You want me to run in your circle as much as I want you in mine.

When we're apart, you're too busy with your own interests to get jealous or insecure--I can't WAIT to come home to you.

With stories.

Can't wait to hear yours.