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44 Westminster, CO Trans Woman, Transsexual, Woman, Transgender, Transfeminine

Trans Woman, Transsexual, Woman, Transgender, Transfeminine

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19-99
  • Near me
  • For casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 19
Queer, Bisexual, Pansexual, Sapiosexual, Demisexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Frell it, why did i even bother writing a profile or even bothering to contact a you in a message? Because it's not like you would ever message me back or even keep up a conversation in the first place. You can all go f yourselves, because what follows is the level of effort I did put in to order to make a profile or message to send. And if that was not good enough for you, then you deserve the level of insipid, mediocre responses you do actually get.

I am an ever changing, ever evolving, non-op, queer transsexual, casual femme, non-monogamous, kinky, goth, motorcycle riding, gamer geek, vampire. I am into many aspects of BDSM and am a switch with a strong submissive and service oriented leanings - as in I love bottoming and submission, but can top as an act of service. I am involved in the Denver BDSM/Leather scene. I can have a rather morbid and sadistic sense of humor sometimes, so be warned.

I consider myself a sex-positive, radical queer, and far from perfect activist, even if I don't get out on the streets or into the clubs often enough.

I am an INFP, Libra sun, Gemini rising, Scorpio moon for those who care about any of those things.

If I have looked at your profile, your "I'm looking for" section says "Girls who like..." and you do not have any references to being okay with trans girls, I will likely not message you. I know how picky some people can get about the state of a potential partner's genitalia.

Oh, and yes, even though I do have that whole vampire thing, and I have twilight in my name, I am not a Twilight fan. I've been using sable_twilight, or some variant of it as my handle since about 2002.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I graduated Metropolitan State College of Denver with a BA in Psychology and Journalism:Public Relations. I am currently doing survival work as a part time administrative assistant as I decide what I want (and can do) with my degree.

I'm doing a lot of work on evolving my spiritual practice, having been an eclectic witch, Kherete practitioner, and general energy worker.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding people, submission, writing, internet searches, energy work, sex (I am really, really good at sex), taking people thrift shopping, and some other stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
What I have been told is people notice my eyes, my hair, my smile, my ass. I has been a while since I've done an official seeming survey.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Psychic Vampire Codex, Kushiel's Dart, Whipping Girl, V for Vendetta, Lolita, The Amber series by Zelazny, The Postman by David Brin, Fight Club, Joseph Campbell Masks of God series, Harry Potter, Starhawk, Leslie Feinberg, Kate Bornstein, Extreme Space by F. R. R. Mallory, lots and lots of gaming books, Michael Manning, Michelle Belanger, H. P. Lovecraft, Robert Heinlein

Movies: Strangeland, Crash, Lolita, House of 1,000 Corpses (Hot), Devil's Rejects (Hot), The Cell (Hot Hot), Preaching to the Perverted (Goes without saying), The Secretary (are we seeing a theme here? if you can and can understand message me)

okay, now for some others that are not apart of that theme
Just about anything by Tim Burton or Terry Gilliam (Special Favs - Edward Scissor Hands, Sleepy Hollow, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Brazil, 12 Monkeys - oops I said I was getting away from that theme, huh?), The Hellraiser series (except III and IV is tolerable, V is best), Wishmaster
not my entire fire star list, just selected favs to give some flavor
Breakfast on Pluto, 28 Days Later, The Addams Family and Addams Family Values, Batman Begins, Batman: The Dark Knight, Born Into Brothels, Boys Don't Cry, But I'm a Cheerleader, Butterfly Effect, Catch Me If You Can, The City of Lost Children, A Clockwork Orange, Dark City, Dog Soldiers, Fight Club, Ghost Dog, Hero, Innocent Blood, Jacob's Ladder, La Femme Nikita, Legend, Lemony Snicket's Series of Unfortunate Events, Mystery Men, Pretty Baby, Princess Mononoke, Quills, Run Lola Run, Tank Girl, What Dreams May Come, Wizards, Labyrinth

Television: FarScape, Doll House, Invader Zim, Lexx, Power Puff Girls, The Prisoner, Samurai Jack, Venture Brothers, TED Talks History and Science channels

Music: Eclectic would be an understatement. I love music. I can handle music from just about any genre or style, and my tastes very heavily based on my mood. Most times you can catch me listening to 80s New Wave / mod / proto-goth, Goth or Darkwave, Video Game Remix (, EMB / Techno / Trance, the Bluemars Cryosleep internet radio station. Oh, and like every other person out there, DubStep and Electro Swing.

Top favs or most influential bands
Xyla, VNV Nation, The Real Tuesday Weld, Rob Zombie, Michelle Belánger, Tomita, Black Sabbath, Alice Cooper, David Bowie, Oingo Boingo, Bauhaus, The Damned, Talking Heads, Art of Noise, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Nine Inch Nails, Portishead, Devotchka, Boiled in Lead, Jill Tracy, Beats Antique, Abney Park, Parov Stelar, Vampire Beach Babes

Food: just about anything, but especially like Indian. I'm will to give any thing a try or three.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my computer - I am such an internet junkie. It's my main way of connecting with people.

music - I love music. I don't like being without it for long periods of time.

books - I like books. Books tell me things. Like who they are and what they're up to. Or they have fun stories about squirrels. Or maybe ones with *ahem* pictures and stuff...

intimate human contact and energy

friends and loved ones - blah blah blah, sappy junk sappy junk sappy junk *puke* I still need them.

fethishy, kinky sex, of which i do not get enough...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
vampires, energy work, spirituality, BDSM, dominance and submission, consensual slavery, music, queer activism and social justice, loved ones, what makes people tick, fetish, angels, transgender and transsexual issues, role-playing games, what I want to do with my life, what I want to be when I grow up

my personal, spiritual mythology and my spirituality

Oh, and lately, I've been thinking a lot about what drives trans women away from radical queer spaces. How we can get more trans women into sex-positive, authentic pleasure, queer porn. And a few other related topics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out on a date, considering going out to a nightclub, already clubbing, or taking a freaking night off.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a psychic vampire.

And I have a long, freaky, epic back-story associated with it all, and I am more than willing to admit I might simply be delusional.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. can do more than just say hi or hello in a message and I don't have to carry the majority of the conversation.

...being a non-op transsexual does not weird you out. can understand I am an introvert and shy. can understand I am a bit skittish, and tend to be very cautious about meeting people on the internet. understand my chemistry can be fickle. are not looking to own me for life, but might be interested in owning me for a night. are an *experienced* bondage top, interested in tying me up and possibly doing erotic, sensual things to/with my body. can handle that I am both deeply spiritual and deeply skeptical, and can respect that. Just as I will respect your spirituality, non-spirituality, belief, and/or non-belief.

... you interested in talking about Leather / BDSM or Transgender, or you think I'm interesting, or you want to get to know me for some reason, or you want me to know you for some reason, or heck, you want to have some weird conversations with me that I can share on LJ or simply just because. have read this far. And if you include a reference to my favorite color - purple - in your message, I will know. It will likely give you big pluses in my mental tally list. feel compelled to contact me. Trust me, I understand. are a local vampire looking to make contact and build a stronger community here in Denver. I am more than happen to hear from otherkin and therians as well.