Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I aspire to a life less ordinary..making my dreams into reality,
staying true to my creative & idealistic muse professionally,
safeguarding my freedom & flexibility so I can go on epic
adventures between projects..hopefully with an amazing partner. I'm
currently dreaming of driving down the entirety of central &
south america by 4x4..it will happen someday.
I'm slightly too irreverent for my own good at times, quick to
quip, more than a tad sarcastic, but at once easy-going,
communicative, and open. I get along best with independent
Perennially suspicious of the herd mentality, I consider the impact
of what I do on others & the world, & try to remain
open-minded & give people respect & the benefit of the
doubt by default. I abhor hypocrisy, obliviousness, wanton
consumption & waste--if you're the type who leaves lights on,
the water running, or drives when you could more easily ride your
When a creative spark is lit I can get rather obsessive
compulsive--e.g. I turned my inlaw flat into a personal design lab,
to a much greater extent than any rational renter should. I'm into
sustainable architecture & the science & design of ultra
energy-efficient passive houses, & this is the focus of my
I was a serious amateur bicycle racer for many years, but these
days I pour much of that energy & passion into more creative
pursuits. That said, I'll always be fit & an athlete of some
sort no matter how washed up. When I'm local tennis, cycling &
kitesurfing are my defaults, & I love to explore the
backcountry on my mountain bike, skis, motocross bike, on foot or
on ropes. I'm also down for the occasional music festival,
underground party, & crazy SF choose-your-own-adventure.
What I’m doing with my life
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I grew up in a family of eurocentric east coast academics who
perhaps could have used a trip to woodstock, studied even harder in
high school than at Stanford, & was once an environmental
engineer. Now I run my own business as a general
contractor/design-builder/less-unsustainable developer (I detest
the term green, & I like to remind people that if they want a
truly sustainable dwelling they should consider a teepee). Although
dusty, I like it, & despite being somewhat conflicted about
increasing my responsibilities in life & telling people what to
do, it turns out I'm adept at it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-designing & building unaffordable housing
-creating extremely comfortable spaces for my friends to spill
their drinks in
-organizing/optimizing & inventing macgyveresque solutions..i
like to be the last one voted off the island
-motorcycle depreciation (little known fact: motorcycles actually
increase your life expectancy due to parking/traffic stress
-restoring vintage schwinn stingrays
-reporting Hummers to 1.800.exhaust
The first things people usually notice about me
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tall, slim/athletic build, youthful-looking, a bit coy, at times
laconic..& when i do open my mouth my jaw clicks faintly
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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what about art? i'm into http://www.audrey-kawasaki.com
this sort of thing makes me happy:
i'm perhaps the most infrequent movie watcher you've never met, but
if you drag me to one that inspires or amuses me i won't hold it
music: glitch/crunk (martyparty, an-ten-ae, random rab..),
electro-indie, santigold, the knife, mgmt, golden filter, frances
england, & i am so in love with lily allen, for her
i can read--usually trade/design magazines & building science
newsletters, once in a while a real book even. all-time favorites
include Zen & the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, The Monkey
Wrench Gang, The Onion's Our Dumb Century, Michael Pollan.
i eat too, & prefer it to be delicious--once upon a time i grew
up cooking lots with foodie parents..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my eclectic, crazy & rad crew of SF friend-thingies
good coffee & cream (half & half is a travesty imo)--i
bring my own coffee apparatus on weekend getaways, since not all
people can be trusted.
my transformer work/camper van I designed & built out--it's
sort of stealth/neokidnapper from the outside, dutch modern wood
yacht on the inside, & just might be more comfortable than your
many flavors of bicycles
natural elements that induce pleasure (gravity, wind, water, rock,
my todo list system..i bust stuff out at a pace that amazes my
friends & totally have my shit together, but dislike trying to
keep things in my head so they get written down instantly.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how ridiculously privileged most of us are including myself,
relative to the collective experience of humanity throughout
history. i don't tolerate complainers.
design-building modest modern ultra efficient urban infill or
off-the-grid passive dwellings
rearranging bumper/fender sticker letters to amuse myself &
confuse others. my best effort: VT > TV.
words & phrases ending in '-er' with unintended double
meaning..e.g. fiddler on the roof, sucker for punishment, warner
brothers. it's totally juvenile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
finishing some creation, napping & then going out til 3am, or
napping & then bailing on going out til 3am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i can tie cherry stems in my mouth no sweat.
one of the true loves of my life was dating a woman when we met,
& one of my first loves is now a total lesbian.
You should message me if
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you have a passion to contribute something original to your world,
but don't take yourself too seriously, aren't a pushover, &
will call me on my bullshit, even though it doesn't exist :) I'm
open-minded about okc connections turning into platonic
friendships, though I most want a deep connection & attraction
with a long-term partner to dream & make plans with :)
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