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34 Cupertino, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:50am
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
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I am an emotionally aware, grounded, mature woman. I have dated enough to know what I am looking for in a partner. What I want more than anything else is to feel deeply understood and accepted by my partner, and to feel that I understand him in this way as well. "Tangibles" e.g. walks on the beach, being wined and dined, flowers, etc. mean far less to me than how I feel when I am with the other person. This intangible feeling of wanting to be with someone has proven difficult to find thus far but I remain hopeful that I will find my match.
What I’m doing with my life
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is probably not different from what anyone else is doing, honestly. People are not that different, I don't think. Sometimes surviving and sometimes living, but always striving - sometimes successfully and sometimes unsuccessfully - to find meaning in what I do.
I’m really good at
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remembering what people tell me, because I usually care enough to remember.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my animated facial expressions and inability to maintain a poker face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I think that shared values and compatible personalities are far more important than shared interests.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
More than anything else, a purpose in life and a reason to keep going
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what makes for a meaningful life?

how rare and special it is to truly connect with someone on an emotional level
You should message me if
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you are looking for someone who really "gets" you.