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saffiresea

23 / F / straight / Single

San Antonio, Texas

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly)

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I am adventurous, philosophical, and curious.

My Self-Summary

Hey. Do you see me? I've been looking for You. Who are You? And who am I? We could play tag. Maybe we'll figure it all out. Want to? Find and catch me, if you can.

I love adventure, fun, exploring the world, and things I can see, hear, touch, feel, taste, and smell. Let's do something!

I seek connection, the electricity of a soulmate. I love interesting conversation, and I also love comfortable silence, to share the experience of being human and to appreciate the moment. I love a similar connection in friendships. I'll do almost anything for people I have a strong connection with.

I have a childlike wonder of the world and especially of nature.

I generally have a level head and I'm open-minded while being analytical. I'm not exactly conventional. I question much while still listening to collective wisdom. I am willing to rethink all I know because I love the pursuit of truth. I love figuring out how the world works and pondering the mysteries of the universe. I embrace good change and love to grow.

What I’m doing with my life

I hang out, read, listen to music and podcasts while doing web design at home or wherever, do private tutoring, enjoy the outdoors, dance, do yoga, and do many other magical and mundane things.

I love living an interesting life and making meaningful connections.

I’m really good at

learning, analyzing, coming up with ideas, understanding people (how mysterious we can be, though), enjoying simple things, and massage

The first things people usually notice about me

you tell me--beauty and all else is in the eye of the beholder

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: The Bible, I and Thou, Siddhartha, The Brothers Karamazov, Sword of Truth series, The Prophet, Lord of the Rings, A Passage to India, Emerson, Heart of Darkness, A Wrinkle In Time, The Giver, Suspicion and Faith: The Religious Uses of Modern Atheism, Man's Search for Meaning

Music: symphonic metal, rock, progressive, reggae, r&b, hip-hop, folk, singer-songwriter, passion and poetry

Movies: The Lion King, Lord of the Rings, Life is Beautiful, Fearless, Lady in the Water, Wizard of Oz, Prince of Egypt, Howl's Moving Castle, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Matrix, Les Miserables, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, Amelie, Winged Migration, Good Will Hunting

Food: I'm not very picky as long as it's (usually) healthy and delicious.

The six things I could never do without

I can do without a lot of things, but the quality of life diminishes. Besides the basics for survival and minimal comfort, I like to have...
self-respect
authenticity
growth
balance
meaningful relationships
awesome experiences

I spend a lot of time thinking about

who I want to be in life, what I want to do, where I want to go, and how to do it all.

humanity--who other people are, who I am, and how we connect.

how the world works and how to live better.

philosophy, spirituality, and existence.

On a typical Friday night I am

teleporting.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll admit to anything if asked by someone I trust and someone I want to know me.

You should message me if

you want to share adventures with me, whether it's just with you or with you and some friends

and/or

you have something to say

and/or

you think we could be best friends or soulmates.

It doesn't matter where you live. You never know where we'll move around or travel to.

Let's be friends first. I'm into making friends off of this site as well as possibly meeting someone I have a lot of chemistry with.