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32 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a history professor of East Asia.

Raised in NYC, lived in China, Taiwan, and Japan for over five years before returning to the States for graduate school.

I love traveling to non-Western parts of the world. Most recently been to Zambia, Lebanon, and have visited most of Southeast Asia and East Asian. Next cities I would love to see are Berlin and Moscow.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love teaching, yoga, weight-lifting, long unhurried talks over dinner, films (especially foreign and drama).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Asking questions (even if some might think it's prying), analyzing human behavior, keeping up positive energy. I can be my "genuine" self with most people, even without alcohol.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm extremely curious and emotive. People often mistake me for being Korean.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Writers: Jonathan Franzen, Kazuo Ishiguro, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Natsume Soseki, Yukio Mishima.
Directors: Koreeda Hirokazu, Shunji Iwai, Woody Allen, Spike Lee, Richard Linklater, Edward Yang, Wong Kar-wai, Kim Ki-duk.
Actors/Actresses: Ethan Hawke, Christian Bale, Cate Blanchett.
Shows: Mad Men, the Wire.
Music: Radiohead, Stereophonics, Brahms, Elgar, Tchaikovsky (I played the cello up through college).
Food: Anything Asian and spicy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Conversation with close friends, coffee (now decaf full-time), yoga, intellectual and emotional stimulus, surprises in life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve myself in both body and spirit; comparing Asian cultures; ways to put myself in situations where I can find people to connect with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating with a friend; watching a movie; or treating weekends like weekdays (and vice-versa) and writing like a maniac.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's hard for me to hide what I'm feeling/thinking. It shows clearly on my face.
You should message me if
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You're quirky, feel comfortable with not being "normal," and want to connect with someone with different cultural experiences yet similar tastes.