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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:00pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Raised in NYC, lived in China, Taiwan, and Japan for over five years before returning to the States for grad school. Am now a professor of East Asian history and reacquainting myself with Tokyo.

I have spent a lot of time traveling to non-Western parts of the world. Most recently been to Zambia, Lebanon, Berlin, and would love to visit Istanbul and Moscow.

You: multicultural background/interests, curious, passionate about your work and the art of life.
What I’m doing with my life
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Teaching, yoga, boxing, long unhurried talks over dinner, watching films (especially foreign).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Asking questions (even if some might think it's prying), analyzing human behavior, keeping up positive energy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm Korean -- except I'm not.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Writers: Jonathan Franzen, Kazuo Ishiguro, F. Scott Fitzgerald
Directors: Woody Allen, Cameron Crowe, Noah Baumbach, Wong Kar Wai, Woody Allen, Spike Lee, Richard Linklater, Edward Yang
Actors: Ethan Hawke, Christian Bale, Cate Blanchett
Shows: Mad Men, The Wire, House of Cards
Music: Radiohead, Stereophonics, Brahms, Elgar, Tchaikovsky (I played the cello up through college).
Food: Anything Asian and spicy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Conversation with close friends, coffee, yoga, intellectual and emotional stimulus, surprises in life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve myself in both body and spirit; comparing Asian cultures; ways to put myself in situations where I can find people to connect with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Giving my colleagues a hard time over drinks, eating with a friend, watching a movie, planning adventures.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's hard for me to hide what I'm feeling/thinking. It shows clearly on my face.
You should message me if
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You're quirky, feel comfortable with not being "normal," and want to connect with someone with different cultural experiences yet similar tastes.