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46 Madison, WI Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 36–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 3
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Likes dogs and has cats
English, German (Fluently), Italian (Okay), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a first generation geek. I grew up with computers as they grew up around me. I recently found several computers that I owned in a computer history museum. I was born and raised in Germany and enjoyed most of my education in Europe. I tend to pick hobbies around software and electronics although sailing is my biggest passion. I take pleasure in both kinds of sailing: social sailing as well as wet sailing on windy days. In general I enjoy silent sports swimming and biking being part of it. Recently I supported a good friend doing a 30 day drinking sabbatical. I enjoyed the productivity gain in leaving the bar scene for a month so much that I didn’t rejoin. I am still adjusting to the social changes, getting tired of hearing ‘you are no fun anymore’ and mildly annoyed by drunk folks. I spent a significant amount of time in front of computer screens and rarely turn on my big screen (TV) at home. With the exception of the Olympics and the Soccer World Cup – I really don’t watch sports. I became a morning person (5:30 am) to avoid rush hour traffic for my morning commute. With my recent job change I replaced my half hour car commute with an easy 15 minute bike ride. I am still getting up early and enjoy everything I get done in the morning.

I practice (not always successfully) – Mahatma Gandhi - "Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever."

I treat people the way I want to be treated. I always have the intention but some days it doesn’t work out.

I give unconditionally but once in while I catch myself expecting something in return.

”People don’t always remember what you say or even what you do, but they always remember how you made them feel.” – Maya Angelou.

My ultimate measure of my interactions is how I make people feel.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work full time making software for a smaller software company here in town. During the summer I sail, swim outdoors and use the bike to get there. The winter is reserved for geeky projects and cross country skiing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at fixing stuff – well – I am good really at taking stuff apart.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Survey says: mild accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: The Big Lebowski, Lord of War, Run Lola Run, Pulp Fiction, Battlestar Galactica.
I enjoy local food - ideally organic. I frequent local restaurants that cook fresh food and I try to avoid the greasy spoon and chains.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, organic food, water to swim in, bicycling and geeky projects.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Running my own startup company.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am geeking out with friends, having dinner or enjoy a really early bed time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't spell in any language to save my life.

Sometimes I take situations for what I'd like them to be rather then what they are.

I am also a little bit afraid of my pressure cooker and wore safety glasses using it for the first few times.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you can miss watching football, enjoy the outdoors, are interested in geeky stuff, are open minded and are willing to learn forever.