I am a very unusual man, looking for a special lady. The fact that I have no ex-wife (or girlfriend), seems to scare most visitors away. There is no reason for this reaction. I simply rarely met anyone. In the happy hunting grounds of high school and college, I was in mostly male only classes and spent most of my spare time doing my school work, (Hence the honour grades, scholarships and job offers.) My job also was almost always in a male only setting among high tech. machinery and robots.( Except for about a 3 month period in plant engineering, designing the electrical system for a new production line, I was rarely in the office area.) Since I do not dance or do the bar scene, I tried to get people to come out sailing in summer and I got into badminton during the winter, but very few women my age came to either. So here I am, mentally and financially stable, and very easy to get along with trying this site. I have answered an awful lot of these questions as honestly as I can, although many do not apply to me, since they assume a previous partner existed. I probably should have skipped a lot of questions that didn't have suitable answers because it seems to have negatively affected the personality results. They obviously only go by answers, and take no notice of explanations, but even then, I do not see how they get the results they show! I agree I am not an average guy, but their graph is very wrong on several things, so take a chance write, and you can find the real me for yourself. I usually check the question area of people I visit to see what the ratings are based on, and often find the best looking match numbers are rated on very little. (Also, cupid seems to change the numbers to whatever they feel like that day, since I have looked at categories that are a poor % match, but 28 out of 30 questions were exactly the same answer, and in black too ). There seem to be very few females that take the time to answer more than about a hundred. I try to answer my messages fairly quickly, but it may not indicate that because the majority of the ones I have had up until now, are out of country (Russia, Philippines, etc.), scammers or "business" ones that I do not want. I am not that desperate that I am going to get into that situation! (Done the long distance pen pal thing before. ) I am not into mind games or making up all kinds of wonderful sounding stories about myself. Just in case my photos make me look heavy, (I tend to like loose fitting clothes), I will say that I am nearly always around 160 pounds fully dressed for a long time now. I admit that I am not great at getting conversations going, so please say more than "hi" or "how are you" to help me get started. Thank you for visiting, and if you think you are interested, or would like more detailed information, please message me! I am willing to meet and chat, with no expectations involved, and I have never attacked anyone, so it is very safe.
PS.. In the rare occasions that I do message someone, I would greatly appreciate some sort of reply, even if it is only "not interested".