update- don't know who notices (I didn't) the staff robot says I'm very dominant, don't think so. Sooner or later most people are happy to take direction from me, not about many things, not all the time, and that's not the goal, it's just that I sometimes see things a little more clearly.
Very lucky to have landed at Cal (stayed 6 yrs) for the anti-aparthied actions and had the chance to learn about politics and drop some assumptions about corporations, governments and people. It also began to help me see a place for myself in the world. I'm usually mellow, happy and humorous. I enjoy being alive in this most excellent place and most interesting time. I continue to know that if I have an inclination, it is a benevolent universe. Almost all of my adult life I've been in a relationship(4 major ones), trying not to have this period of dating feel like some kind of emergency, but I have to admit I don't entirely like it.