There's more on my website, but mostly my interests are in cognitive and social neuroscience, meditation, social recommendation algorithms, web 2.0 games for smart people, hacking, conlangs, linguistics, languages, massage, making cool things, ... it's kinda hard to summarize. I'm just generally unusual.
I like people who are intelligent, self-aware, empathic, knowledgeable, geeky, healthy, eloquent, somewhat androgyne / genderless, and have a good balance of rationalism and spirit, of the real and the non-mundane.
I have a partner of five years and a girlfriend of one. They're both lovely. Alas, the former is now long distance (and going to become further still); the latter will be back in the area soon but isn't around now.
It'd be nice to have more good-friends(-plus) — people to have intellectual play with, cuddle, share skritches / massage, etc. (I'd particularly like to have more friends who have the rare mixture of rationalism and energy-work.)
That doesn't rule out sex or starting a new Relationship more than a friends-with-benefits; it's just not a very high priority for me, so I'm not actively seeking it — but I'm not default rejecting either. So if you think we'd be compatible, feel free to ask me on a date .
If you're not familiar with polyamory, please read this FAQ. Basically, my partners' comfort and consent is very important to me (as is yours). It's not really a problem, just means they're looped in on my decisions.