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30 Venice, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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In no particular order:

I'm a social cognitive neuroscientist who lives by the beach. I study how empathy works. Personally, I think it goes far beyond just a moral emotion or a way to understand one another. I think it may be the key to the way we rapidly form groups with dynamic, coordinated behavior by "synching" with one another and losing our individual self. If you've ever played music or danced or made love with an old partner, you'll know what I mean.

I work with music and experimental photography at night. I paint with a camera, basically. My technique is fun and pretty easy to learn.

I really enjoy my life at the moment but I'm excited about where and how I'll be next, and the people I'll meet.

Wealth consists of maximizing the amount of time in which you can do whatever the hell you want.

I was a spooky, happy kid once, now I'm a full-grown enthusiastic weirdo.

I believe attraction predates friendship as well as love and lust, so don't be put off if my intentions aren't clear at first. I'm usually figuring them out as I go along. Assume the best and I'll try to do the same.

I really, really, really like live music. I am usually at a show or playing a show or preparing a show. I hope the afterlife is a bar with live bands, a pool table and a lot of trees.
What I’m doing with my life
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putting people inside enormous magnets
n' analyzing they brains
shooting pool
drinking whiskey
experimental motion photography
silly dancing in public places
cooking and eating
composing with my groovy, spooky band Mr.Vampire
exploring natural and urban environments
singing opera in the shower
dancing to cuban music after I shower
lifting large triangular weights, hup!
painting my nails
biking around Venice
sitting still and doing absolutely nothing
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hitting oversized apples with a baseball bat and lighting fireworks, in that order
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!



Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Calvin and Hobbes, Kurt vonnegut, Oscar Wilde and Yukio Mishima. Dr. Seuss (a true artist), William Burroughs rocks socks. Jean genet, Susan sontag, graham greene, edgar allen poe, James Galvin, Margaret atwood, Steven Pinker, Truman Capote, Hemingway, Gore Vidal, Charles Bukowski, Simone de Beauvoir, Le Comte de Lautreamont, Frank Herbert!!!!

Underground, Beasts of the southern wild, wages of fear, man bites dog, american psycho, the Godfather I-II-III, Blues Brothers, Old Boy, The Saint, Natural Born Killers, A Clockwork Orange, Super Troopers, Jurassic Park, The Dreams of Akira Kurosawa, Even Dwarves started off small, Pinocchio, Meet The Feebles, Viy, Wages of Fear

Tom Waits and Nina Simone are gods. Prince, Chavela Vargas, Radiohead, McLusky, Slayer, Butthole Surfers, Django Reinhardt

Gnocchi with pesto. Really good cheese or butter with some good, crusty bread. Spinach with raisins and pine nuts, ribs, macaroni and cheese...If I'm on a budget, an avocado on a tortilla with some salt, accompanied by beer and hot sauce.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, soft skin, good conversations, avocados, garlic, beauty, bourbon, weed, freaks, temporary insanity, books, unnecessary limits on my lists, deep breaths, ugly dogs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Gravity and levity
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
fabolous dahling, just fabolous
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I may or may not worship the subgenius

I have been known to enjoy a light whipping.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you love the moon

you're a bit intense.

you want to make art or play music with me

you know what Shibari is and you'd like to play.

you're an independent person who can teach me things