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41 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:29pm
4′ 11″ (1.50m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am looking for a man who is my lover and also my best friend.

I am not particularly picky. I just know what I want. I know what are the qualities I desire in a man. It's good to have standards. Never settle!
It's not hard to find a date but it's really hard to find a perfect match. So here I am...looking for a close to perfect match. :)

I cannot stress enough how much I appreciate great communication. It is especially crucial in a romantic relationship.
I am hoping to find someone who appreciates honest, respectful and effective communication.
This is a basic quality but I must say this has been very difficult to find.

I believe in treating others with respect and also the way as they would like to be treated.

Friends who are close to me would describe me as fun loving, playful, creative, goofy, considerate, light-hearted, open-minded, funny, friendly and loyal. I have been very fortunate to have many great friends in my life. They have been a great value and positive influence in my life.

When I am not working, I love cooking, trying out different recipes, going to movies, plays, musicals, live music, watching DVDs, travelling, knitting, hiking, rafting, etc. I would try almost anything long as it's not dangerous, immoral or illegal. LOL

I also love exploring new/old restaurants. How fortunate is that we live in our beloved Portland? Any kind/cuisine from ethnic food, NW's farm to table, gourmet, dinners, happy hours, food carts would pretty much make me happy. Been to a few "preview dinners" - good times. If you haven't tried that, you got to check it out. :)

Recently I am exploring super foods: quinoa, kale, kelp etc...Mmmm. Also love the "whole" idea of food - Natural and organic.
What I’m doing with my life
Stay healthy. Eat healthy food, exercise, stay active. t's hard for me to stay motivated to work out. This is the kind of positive change that I am working on.
Build and improve personal outlooks.
Just like everyone else here, I want to find someone special, to share all the wonderful things in life - small or big.
I am enjoying my single life. Hopefully this will change in a short future.
I’m really good at
Keeping up the positive attitude.
Making people and myself laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look younger than my age.
I am very petite.
I am Asian...duh!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books-Haven't read a good book for a long time. Would love to find the time to catch up on reading though. I do read lots of magazines.
Movies -Too many to list.... I like action, drama, special effects, Sci-Fi, etc....Not into chick flicks.

Music - Sarah McLachlin, Rihanna, Pink, Kelly Clarkson, Maroon 5, Katy Perry, Bruno Mars, Colbie Caillat, Sarah Bareilles, Adel, Ingrid Michaelson, Fun, One republic, Green Day, Nikelback, Michael Buble, The Script, Jason Mraz

Food- Love good food. American, Italian, Chinese ( Panda Express and PF Chang don't count...LOL), Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, French, Mexican, Thai, Indian, Mediterranean, etc.
Oh seafood....Mmmm!
The six things I could never do without
* Good food
* Family
* Friends
* Sense of humor
* GPS (sigh...)
* "______" => Blank for now. I hope it will be you. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
~ Future
~ hmm....what am I going to eat next..:-)
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have a typical Friday night.
Cooking dinner, going to movies/shows/concerts, dining out with friends, staying in to relax at home. Anything goes...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Even though I am a sociable person, I can be shy at the first few meetings. Nerves get to me almost every time.
People say that I am hilarious. But you probably won't see that in the initial meetings until I get warmed up. :p

I have absolutely no sense of direction, which means that you will always be the navigator. :p
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
* You know what you want and who you want in your life.
* You love good food.
* You are open-minded, honest, considerate, thoughtful, confident.
* You are not uptight.
* You are able to speak your mind trufully.
*. You are not flaky. (Seriously! Is this a NW thing?!?!)
* You believe in doing the right thing, even when nobody is looking.
* My glass is half full. I hope yours is the same if not fuller.
* I hope that you are very funny. :)