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43 M Astoria, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:11pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Tall, long haired, red headed, third generation NY'r, minus the accent. I'm a musician, a music producer/engineer and an audio post engineer. I'm a realistic idealist, I firmly believe in my ideals as rational and achievable, with plenty of hard work.

I'm drawn to balance and empathy.

Politically, I don't feel I have an allegiance to any one party, I subscribe to ideas, though infinitely less Republican ideas.

I'm often late ... not half-hour-late, more around 10-min-or-so-late - it's a work in progress ... thought I'd offer full disclosure.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I tend to work a lot, keeping many balls in the air. This includes my career - which can mean a number of different things, depending on the day - and my music.

I work with audio, producing and recording bands, mixing films and TV shows.

My passion is my own music, currently fronting my own band, singing and playing drums.

Looking for something lasting, but in the meantime, looking to enjoy myself and not force anything.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping a lot of balls in the air (get your mind out of the gutter ... kidding, I'm a big fan of the gutter).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably once you talk to me for a bit, people start to realize I don't think like a lot of people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love the latest Lana Del Ray, I think by far her best yet. Got into a band called POLIÇA, wish I saw them when they were in town. Somehow, in 2014, I just discovered The Everly Brothers on a larger scale. The last QOTSA is great. The last James Blake, he's brilliant, aware, sexy. liturgy is incredible if you like heavy, intense, almost violent music.

And some old standbys, Deftones, Sly and the Family Stone, Bad Brains, Jeff Buckley use to be religion for me, still is to a large degree. Elton John, on and on ...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends
My sister and her family
A glass of good bourbon
Spell check and/or my dictionary app
Lip balm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music and creating.
Understanding our minds. Understanding my mind.
How we can make life better for the largest number of people.
The bigger picture.
How great your ass looks (see below).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As you've probably already noticed, I have a mustard fetish. (Joking, I don't actually have a mustard fetish, not that I'm aware of.)
You should message me if
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You think we'd turn each other on.
You're going through, have been in, or open to, analysis and/or EMDR ... absolutely, please reach out to me!
You're moving toward balance.
You're not super aggressive or always in sarcastic mode
You're able to let your guard down for the right person.
You don't let fear run your life.
You're adventurous.
You're creative and passionate.
You're emotionally intelligent and reach for fearlessness.
You question things, and want to make sense of yourself and the world around you.
You're not afraid to see the ugliness and beauty in both.
You think we'd fantasize about each other when we're not together.
You have a great ass (no one ever minds a great ass.)