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40 F San Francisco, CA

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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
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Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Dutch (Poorly)

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I live in Victoria, BC, Canada. Not that city listed up there ⬆.
I love to travel and meet cool people.. Book me a flight? Plan a roadtrip? Hop on a ferry or float-plane and come visit me here on my cute Canadian island?.. I'd absolutely love that. If we like, we'll hit replay and annex ourselves up into a mini-gang. You bring the music, k?

Today's replays:

Parov Stelar of course..

In about 12 nights, I'll wonder wtf I heard in this unassuming little song??.. but today it's replayreplayreplay all the way; cymbals, rounded xylophone, groovin' clock-tack, static and that delicious fifth "ohhh baahhhhm":

I love the little martian mouth in this:
Another with some obscure chant. Goes great with the one above. It takes up to 1:50sec before the bass starts, so don't kill it too soon:


I am having a love affair with yellow. Such a galling colour. It takes 3 coats whereas any other shade politely requests one; yes, three distinct occasions to fuck up the trim. I've tried to suppress it, this desire for yellow.. but as I look around my place and see all its satisfied shades of amber, yolk, lemon, squash, mustard, sunflower, citrine, saffron, sand, canary, custard.. I feel a sun-stained grin swell up and spill out, wondering how can I be friends with such a frank and amoral tint. Gee, I do love that dress..

Off to buy a Gideon's bible from the thrift store:) Will put it on the dashboard of the Lil Skate. I'm hoping it might help with the speeding tickets.. Update 3 hours later** ..ok, so I stole the bible.. 0_o geez! have I no shame!!?? ..I appall myself sometimes.. but I just couldn't part with $7 bucks. Being Dutch trumped being good. It's very pretty. Virgin white leather with a thin silver cross embossed on its cover, silver-foiled edges and three white ribbony page-marker thingys. It's perfect. I'm gonna repent now.. on my knees.. The song that started it all: Corb Lund

ok, Actual Self Summary: I took up in the mountains, foothills and prairies of Canada free-ranging the high alpine and alongside rivers I could drink from. Rode an intractable pinto named Warpaint for miles and miles. Slept outside. Skied deep in winter and found tight cols up beyond glaciers in summer loving steep-slope speed. I broke a lot of bones and hitchhiked back from wherever. It was exceptional.

Now I'm a coastal Canadian girl: rocky beaches, rivers, urban kickin' and taking road trips in my lil Skate. Hopefully keeping bones intact, but still jones for speed.

Dutch background rendered down to pigtails, a few vestigial swear words and double-salted licorice.

The only sentence of Dutch I can remember is: "Je bent een stout meisje en je moet een pak op je broek!!!" Which translates roughly to: "You've been a naughty girl and you need a spanking!!" ..I think that's pretty funny.

The other phrase, which I heard just as often is:
"A heel lief meisje," which means, "A real sweet girl."

Those two phrases summarize me pretty well..
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
..capturing bits of life and then letting them go on a fine hope they'll evoke tomorrow's soft fond reminiscences.. Delicious vignettes along the lines of rambling within the city and out: bicycles, boat trips, day trips, roadtrips, flying to some city I've never been, and cool with just hanging out too.. music, JD, napping, and putting something tasty together with the stuff from the farmer's market.. with you? That'd be sweet.

the Corolla -- lil Skate:
I've been modifying my '83 AE71 Corolla with my friend. On its way to becoming a sleeper-drifter, the lil Skate.. We'll cut the body rust this summer. Found some 14" American Racing Equipment Libre rims from the 1960s. A beautiful 4-spoke daisy design made of sand cast aluminum. Kick-ass sound system is in. I can't believe the huge volume and clarity. Pedestrians dance while we're all waiting for the light to change. Rear suspension is up next.

..snacking on music otherwise.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Just riding the day to see where it goes. I really love doing that. The hours aren't likely to own me then..

..enjoying totally ruining a song by replaying it to death. That's got to be my all-time favourite best worst habit ever. I love it.

Left turns down some dirt road in a sideways drift with Skate.. still kind of need to learn to pull out of that though.

Napping ..all tangled-up.. and touch.
Beach fires in the evening soft and warm.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Some say my coincidence to Sissy, Velma, Bjork or Joni.

I wiggle and squirt when I smile..
.. long neck perhaps ..
or slinky hair; sun-licked tarnished gold..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music -- I have a curse of insatiable sound thirst, especially when it's stoked in percussion and beat. The best is finding some song and 13 seconds in, a slow delicious warmth fires inside; the happiness spreading my cheeks with promise and uncovering all the possibility of its pleasure. The next flight or roadtrip may indeed include a concert destination! I would very much like to see Parov Stelar in Europe; perhaps Kraków? Please take me?? Parov playlist.

Food! Yes, please!! The Seasonals: Sockeye salmon, Spot prawns, BC Cherries, dusty blackberries. The Regulars: Bubby Rose's Bakery, Alberta beef, oysters, manky IPAs, smokey JD and coffee. And the Occasionals: liverbacononions, pho, strange Asian fruit and some things unpronounceable: hagelslag and pekelharing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
∞ Introverts.
∞ My Bike.
∞ Dutch Licorice.
∞ Fire. Soooo good after cold and wet.
∞ Modifying, fabricating, creating.
∞ Borderless time.
∞ Music.. duelling bass lines and percussivity.

and love silty rivers lined with willows and poplars... but apparently can do without them as I live on a rocky coast now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Radiation physics. And ironically, hugs too. My grind is really the best of both worlds.

Ummm, the EM spectrum; I think it's pretty cool. Love playing with 380nm to 740nm, hanging out at 20Hz to 20kHz; and earn my keep in the MeV range.

Last Year's Thoughts.. Getting the 4AGE for my lil Skate.. and all the acceleration it would bring. My Future Self doesn't want to eat tinned cat food in her old age and would prefer I be satisfied with what I have - the newly rebuilt polite stalwart unremarkable 4AC - and quit recklessly pissing her money away on things I merely want and don't need. My Present Self is grinning in anticipation of feeling that wicked 20-valve engine hit its rev limiter my ass momentarily weightless in the seat.... an entirely tasty dilemma indeed. I wonder who's gonna win? listen.. 0:13sec

(shhhh, Future Self doesn't know about my long-standing turbo desires, so please don't tell her or she'll totally nix the 4AGE.)

Corolla update** Future Self and I have reached some kind of fiscal truce. Yay! We're going with the 3TC. I put some pix up in the lil Skate album.. Brace yourself.. it's nasty, but I can see glory in its destiny.. It'll go like st!nk once we've modified its sweet little guts to fit Skate ... Why can't I be like other girls and make payments on a Dodge Neon or Pontiac Sunfire or Ford Fiesta? Prolly cuz I'd shoot myself, that's why.. ok, the Fiesta notwithstanding.. Ken Block drifts one like a ninja..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...pliable, soft, warm and draping. Often very tired. Always cuddly. Usually listening to music.. Sometimes giving myself a haircut.

On a typical Tuesday night I am
...curious, sharp, craving, silken, fluid, anticipating and ineffably hopeful. On exceptionally rare occasion, blindfolded..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Um, I have a big bowl of porridge every night before bed.

The fallout of feminism sits uneasy with me. I really miss the culture of men... and softly think, "What have we done??" (Now that is a very private thought..)

I'm a curious mix of obliquely shy and subtly uninhibited.. I don't really get how that got mixed in me, but it's cute and it works.

The digits at the top don't accurately reflect the number of times I've lapped the sun. It fluctuates between 36-99. But pix were taken within its last orbit, which I hope mitigates any perceived duplicity. Please visit the lovely girls ↗︎↗︎↗︎↗︎↗︎↗︎↗︎ up over there if this is important for you; like if you want children or if you value typical milestones beigely convoying along standard Western timelines. I'm unconcerned with your age.

I like speed..
I lack fear.. this is a problem sometimes

ok, I guess this is the admissions section..
The ancient, heavily-accented doctor enthusiastically as he poked a scope up my bum in spring, "Ahhh, You have the anus of a 20-year old. It's splendid." I can't decide if that's über inappropriate, or if I should enjoy it as a fine compliment.. I think I'll go with the latter., I started reading that filched bible.. didn't get too far in and I'm already feeling this overwhelming urge for confession:

I sometimes lie (age). I sometimes cheat (Scrabble). I'm a thief (bibles). I sometimes disobey the law (..mmm speed). I covet (your fries). I am unrepentant.. but I won't take your home, your worth or your dignity. I might steal a piece of your heart though; I won't ever give that back and will keep it close to mine for the rest of my life.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–52
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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You'd like to meet me?.. I travel exceptionally well knowing there might be a warm smile waiting to be shared..

..brown-eyed? ..oh my my

You tend to gather up caresses in drifts of sleep.

You like wading in the shallow end of the mental pool from time-to-time just being chill.

You aren't afraid of having feelings for someone.. because you're totally going to love me.


A little fyi please.. I like real time better, k? And not one-time real time either.. that's just a bit too unlikely for me. I'm wicked smart, charmingly naïve, sweetly-dumb on occasion, and never ever intentionally unkind. Please be discerning with me.

Thank you for visiting.

xo ← for you :)

and a little PS? I'm sorry if I haven't responded.. I want to thank you so much for lovely comments; they make me smile. So thank you for making me smile.

xo ← another just for you.
xo ← ok, one more... geez, let's just take our clothes off already ;)