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40 F Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Nov 27, 2013
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
First of all, let me say. I don't smoke---anything, I am not dominant nor submissive. I don't care if you like BBWs. I am 6'2" and 200 pounds, not 5'6" and 200 pounds. I don't want to get high or drunk with you.

Now, I'm here because I want to proudly refer to someone I respect and love as my boyfriend. I'm loveable and loving.

To me doing what you say you will is the epitome of respect. Even if it's a bad situation, you can still be honest. Women can take a lot more than men know.

I want somebody to believe in and someone who will believe in me. Not a god or a spiritual entity, but a spiritual connection. I want to know him so well that I could guess the choices he would make and be right and he me.

I believe that in the right relationship, a person should be able to be vulnerable and strong in the same situation. One of the most beautiful aspects of a man is his ability to know that that makes him human, and that saying "I love you," meaning it and showing it will give him the respect of the right woman.

Who I am is a work in progress. I'm supportive, but I don't want to be taken advantage of. I'm smart, but know that I have so much left to learn. I'm considerate and need some one who will appreciate that.

I enjoy vacationing especially anywhere that has sand, clear water and great food. You guessed it...I love the Caribbean, especially Jamaica. When I'm not soaking up rays, I enjoy traveling to Europe. So far, I've been to Spain a few times and I visited London during the Olympics.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in the primary stages of starting a business and I'm making the most of being single and unrestricted. I don't want to go back to school because two degrees are enough. I'm still learning New York and the East Coast. I enjoy trying new restaurants. You can get any type of food in NYC.
I’m really good at
talking to anyone about anything, starting conversations with random strangers, talking hostile people down, being authentically interested in someone other than myself, being considerate, making a plan and following it through, sleeping
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
include "The Outliers" by Malcolm Gladwell, "The Coldest Winter Ever" by Sista Souljah; 80s rock, 80s R&B, some alternative. Favorite food: seafood paella.
The six things I could never do without
my bed, nachos, an internet connection, self-worth, love and God (not in that order).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's next for me in life, where I should travel next, will my shoe size shrink as I lose more weight
On a typical Friday night I am
at the movies, in bed early or enjoying time with friends after work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
something I'll tell you in private.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you would be as considerate of me as you would want me to be of you; you don't have more than one child, you are really single, not just separated; you have time to share; are adventurous; you find yourself mesmerized by History Channel specials or Animal Planet documentaries on whales and otters