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23 Washington, DC Man


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  • Ages 20–40
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:23pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Trying in vain to figure it all out. All of it. I'm into elegant and poetic systems, moving works, curious phenomena, and just about everything else.

When I'm not engrossed in someone or some concept I take deep enjoyment in less abstract things. I have a great love for music, and like to enjoy nature frequently.

Some of my favorite moments in life are when I can take something and finally see the principles and structures at it's core, the network diagram that represents a web of economics relationships, or the algorithm that determines the growth pattern of a tree.

Contrarily, some of my other favorite moments in life are when that kind of clear analytical understanding of a thing are totally out of my grasp. Listening to a song for the 12th time in a row because it's that amazing, sitting on a quiet mountaintop hearing the wind and little else, or simply being with those you love.

P.S. Genderfucked to hell, and kinky
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
For whatever reason, I'm no longer on the degree -> career -> stability life track, just setting down the road, and starting to love it. I moved to DC at the beginning of this year, gathering momentum, decreasing debts of various types, and acquiring my next target.

More literally, I walk dogs during the day, nerd out in many directions in the afternoons (books, linux, tumblr, sex, etc.), and dance Samba on the weekends!

I want to work as many jobs and live as many different places as I can. If I don't take the opportunity to do it now, I never will!

It became clear to me recently that as much as I wish it weren't the case, my life is not driven by any abstract goal, such as the pursuit of knowledge, artistic beauty, or music, as much as I do love all of those things. The most important thing to me are the people in my life and my relationships with them.

So with the rest of my life? I'm going to make the best friends I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
thinking critically, getting really engaged in something I'm interested in, talking with kids, and I'd like to think I can be pretty funny.

I have a particular love of "semantic specificity and linguistic efficiency" (sometimes to the point of impenetrability...)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty tall, and people tend to say I'm confident, sometimes overly so. Once you start talking to me you'll quickly notice that if you bring the subject around to something I'm interested, whether it's a debate of the ethical merits and consequences of apple's app store, the ludodiegetic implications of branching narrative within The Witcher series, or the philosophy of music, it might take a little prodding to get me to realize I've been the only one talking for 10m.

A few months ago my sister's roommate told her that my sister and I both hum almost all the time when we're doing things. It seems I have been doing this for years and had no idea. So I guess I really have no idea what I'm like!

These days it may also may be my lengthening hair, nail polish, or the gender transgressing clothes I might be wearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I can only answer with what I've been interested in recently, and a scattershot sampling of what I can remember. My tendency is to read something, internalize the message/content and move on. If you ask me about something specific I could probably tell you though!

A couple books/authors I like are:
Pihkal, Audiocultures, Stanislaw Lem, Hyperion, Burns, Kim Stanley Robinson, Charles Stross, Ray Bradbury, Mervyn Peake
But goodreads is becoming an increasingly accurate representation of my reading:

In general, I like books that help me question the assumptions I am making every day in my life, be they feminist non-fiction, academic works, science fiction, or otherwise.

Have some movies: I'm Here, Holy Mountain, Upstream Color, Airplane, Holy Motors, Timecrimes, Duck Soup

Music. Well. My tastes are somewhat diverse, but hopefully I can give some idea (don't read into the ordering that just makes my life more difficult). I was active in the campus radio station at RPI so I got exposed to a wide variety of music. Since then, I've had to be more diligent about making myself explore, currently looking for peer pressure to incentivise that! At the moment I'm primarily exploring hip-hop, but metal, jazz, and classical are on my horizons.
Baths, Genghis Tron, Johan Johansson, Bonobo, Bohren & Der Club of Gore, The Flashbulb, Girl Talk, Air, Ratatat, mum, Damu the Fudgemunk, Binary Star, Nas, Hard 2 Obtain, Living Proof, Constrobuz, J Dilla, Brian Eno, John Cage, Fuck Buttons, Grouper, Big Daddy Kane, Lab Tek Won, Action Bronson, Roc Marciano, Das EFX, Rascalz, Mahler, Billie Holliday, The Isley Brothers, The Books, Nick Drake, Brian Eno

EDIT: Oh god, so out of date. I'm not good at observing my own musical taste in a large scale, so I turn to statistics! Go look at

Foodwise, my favorite thing in the world is cooking new dishes, and learning new techniques. That being said, I always come back to Indian food. Yum.

Games: Journey, DoTA 2, Fez, Bastion
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Someone to talk to
Something to read
Something to learn
Something to listen to
Somewhere I'm going
Some idea how to get there

Less abstractly:
A Go board
A book
Nail polish
A gas stovetop when at home
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything. The algorithms and process underlying all around us, linguistics, sociology, semiotics, gender theory, theory of mind, how people change their minds, how to define the self in face of change, and so much more. A lot of the time though, just how to be *better*.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching the weirdest movie I can find and talking bullshit with some friends, enjoying a great new album, sitting or somewhere outside that's unjustifiably pretty with trees ;), reading a book in the peaceful quiet, or at a kinky party
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not actually very big on secrets/privacy, as I think they undermine the honesty and sincerity I value in myself, so what I do keep secret is for good reason.

My stereo has a 5 CD changer. I haven't bought an aux cord, and I've been burning CDs for over a month. I'm starting to like it.
You should message me if
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You have a pet-peeve philosophy, a favourite album or album of the week, or you'd like to roll the die and see what happens!(hope for a 20!)