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34 M Santa Barbara, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 8
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
When I'm abroad, I tell people I'm a Californian rather than North American. That's how much I love this state. I grew up in the Bay Area. Spent my early to mid 20s in Los Angeles. Now I'm in Santa Barbara. Hard to imagine myself living anywhere else.

I love being spontaneous. I'm always happy when I have a good experience.

But some there are some things in my routine that I love. I'm a big fan of running at dusk. I like newspapers (yes, I like print media), strong coffee and lots of sunshine.

It's always hard describing myself in these venues. I don't care for labels much, but I consider myself a critical thinker.Love sharing insights with people. And more importantly I'm more than happy to listen. Multiple friends have told me that I'm a good listener (not to toot my own horn).
What I’m doing with my life
Going into academia. Currently work as a teaching assistant. Hope to go on as a full-time professor. I still enjoy life. Work out most days. I love art, cinema, music and existentialist literature.
I’m really good at
Writing and cinema. I listen, but I also love to talk.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, I am pretty tall, 6'3". I reckon that's it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books and articles about Latin American media (that's the area of my dissertation.) But I adore the novels of Gabriel García Márquez, Albert Camus, Alejo Carpentier, Henry Miller, Upton Sinclair, Mark Twain, and many more. I love too many movies so I can't pick a favorite. But one that I saw recently and love is Miracle in Milan. I love the films of Luis Buñuel. I like my art to be dreamy and political. As for music, I like a lot of Latin music: cumbia, reggaetón, vallenato, merengue, etc. And for food, well, it's all relative. Around here, I love Mexican food. But when I'm in NYC, I like pizza. I like arepas, but they're hard to find in the U.S.
The six things I could never do without
literature, cinema, whiskey, music, running shoes, and newspapers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I know it sounds depressing, but I think about where the world is going. But I also like to think about what can be done.
On a typical Friday night I am
Every Friday is different. You might catch me reading a book or watching an NBA game. But I'm flexible.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i don't like the Grateful Dead.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you'd like to converse.