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50 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:20pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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What I most like about myself is that I'm powerful, but also kind. I'm a deep thinker and a pioneer. I am able traverse the shallow creeks of life quite well but I prefer swimming in the deep water of a spring fed quarry. People, especially men, sometimes underestimate my intelligence, but I like having subtle qualities only visible to the few. I'm not witty or anything like that. I'm more down to earth, I would say wise, even though you may experience me as naive. I make things by hand. I like to camp and be still. I also like to perform and be silly - another kind of camp. I'm sensual and spiritual, but not conventional or new agey.

If I were a philosopher I would ponder the intersections of enchantment and embodiment in a very practical way.

I want to ride my bicycle. I want to ride my bike. I want to ride my bicycle. I want to ride it where I like... I'm curious and imaginative. I'm a fantastic dancer.


I'm interested in light-hearted dating. When chemistry and compatibility strike, I am open and ready to explore the mystery that arises from a fuller, connected, relationship over time. My approach to relationships is improvisational - Yes And... affirming and responsive. I believe in the value of commitment one step at a time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Row, row, row your boat, gently down the stream.
Merrily, merrily, merrily life is but a dream.

That being said... hopefully you were singing it...

My career as an artist is thriving. I recently finished two years writing my first book on improvisation and patchwork which will be released by Abrams in early 2015. I'm considered an expert in my field ;) which pleases me a great deal. I enjoy sharing my knowledge, through learning, teaching and collaboration.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
knitting socks, creating patterns, paying attention, connecting with people, forgiving, and getting things done.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a passionate reader and prefer fiction. Right now on my list is George Elliot, Hans Fallada, Anton Chekhov, Eileen Myles, and Jennifer Eagan.

I have an eclectic taste in music and film.

Not as experienced with food but am so open to knowing more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
water, sunshine, solitude, curiosity, community, joy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the rhythm of attention and the patterns of nature, and my own patterns of course.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working in my studio or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was a girl I wanted to be a squirrel. Today I want to be a wild horse, or a dolphin, or someone's fat pampered cat, or a young buck frolicking in an unexpected forest puddle after a big storm.
You should message me if
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You are thriving personally and professionally.

You are relationship ready - meaning you've taken enough time to grow and heal from past relationships. You have the skills, courage, and desire to know and be known by others.

Your best self is kind, brave, honest, and ready to engage.