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50 F Oakland, CA

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
--------- Dear and lovely men, I will be on vacation soon, off the grid in a little stone cottage on the coast of Brittany through August 20, and will pick up where I left off upon my return! ---------

What I most like about myself is that I'm powerful, but also kind. I'm a deep thinker and a pioneer. I am able traverse the shallow creeks of life quite well but I prefer swimming in the deep water of a spring fed quarry. People, especially men, sometimes underestimate my intelligence, but I like having subtle qualities only visible to the few. I'm not witty or anything like that. I'm more down to earth, I would say wise, even though you may experience me as naive. I make things by hand. I like to camp and be still. I also like to perform and be silly - another kind of camp. I'm sensual and spiritual, but not conventional or new agey.

If I were a philosopher I would ponder the intersections of enchantment and embodiment in a very practical way.

I want to ride my bicycle. I want to ride my bike. I want to ride my bicycle. I want to ride it where I like... I'm curious and adventurous. I'm a fantastic dancer.


I'm interested in light-hearted dating. When chemistry and compatibility strike, I am open and ready to explore the mystery that arises from a fuller, connected, relationship over time. My approach to relationships is improvisational - Yes And... affirming and responsive. I believe in the value of commitment one step at a time.
What I’m doing with my life
Row, row, row your boat, gently down the stream.
Merrily, merrily, merrily life is but a dream.

That being said... hopefully you were singing it...

My career as an artist is thriving. I recently finished two years writing my first book on improvisation and patchwork which will be released by Abrams in early 2015. I'm considered an expert in my field ;) which pleases me a great deal. I enjoy sharing my knowledge, through learning, teaching and collaboration.
I’m really good at
knitting socks, creating patterns, paying attention, connecting with people, forgiving, and getting things done.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a passionate reader and prefer fiction. Right now on my list is George Elliot, Hans Fallada, Anton Chekhov, Eileen Myles, and Jennifer Eagan.

I have an eclectic taste in music and film.

Not as experienced with food but am so open to knowing more.
The six things I could never do without
water, sunshine, solitude, curiosity, community, joy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the rhythm of attention and the patterns of nature, and my own patterns of course.
On a typical Friday night I am
working in my studio or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was a girl I wanted to be a squirrel. Today I want to be a wild horse, or a dolphin, or someone's fat pampered cat, or a young buck frolicking in an unexpected forest puddle after a big storm.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are thriving personally and professionally.

You are relationship ready - meaning you've taken enough time to grow and heal from past relationships. You have the skills, courage, and desire to know and be known by others.

Your best self is kind, brave, honest, and ready to engage.