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sandiegolover

58 / M / bisexual / Single

San Diego, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.68m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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I am compassionate, passionate, and intelligent.

My Self-Summary

what's life for if not to live it? and friends make life worthwhile. interested in so many things, and always open to more. life is growth. easy going, open minded, curious, fun. people like my smile. i like people who care...about something! and i love romance. i love cuddling, kissing, talking. life is better when shared with friends.

What I’m doing with my life

starting a new phase, involving internal exploration and deeper friendships. care to explore together? i'm currently exploring cross-dressing, among other fun.

I’m really good at

listening. loving. giving. math. running. exploring. reading.

The first things people usually notice about me

my smile? my eyes? my politeness, caring.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

way too many. a couple books: mists of avalon, flatland, name of the rose, and it goes on forever.
movies: about the same, forever. :) classic, thin man, gwtw, film noir (bogart, etc.), comedies, romance, romantic comedies, not so much into violence, thanks.
generally, books and movies that help me feel or think, learn and grow.
music: classical, jazz, folk, rock, and most
foods: i don't get all that excited about food. open to explore within reason. :) don't eat meat except chicken.

The six things I could never do without

water, food, love

I spend a lot of time thinking about

philosophy, psychology, astrophysics, people, me

On a typical Friday night I am

hangin' out

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

it's all true! i cross-dress. i can be lazy. i question everything, esp taboos. i really enjoy opening my heart and connecting.

You should message me if

you like making friends. you're honest, caring, open.