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37 M Brooklyn, NY

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Last Online
Yesterday – 7:38pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My grandmother gave me the handle I use on this website. She used to tell me I had sand in my shoes because I would never stay in one place very long.... she also called me a fart in a whirlwind, but I don't think that phrasing would attract many women to my dating profile.

I'm a bit less of an itinerant vagabond these days, but still need to sate the wanderlust from time to time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
A reformed do-gooder working in real estate. I found out I'm just not the type for an office job in a bureaucracy. Now I'm working on a master plan to run Bushwick.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Saving your profile to favorites and never writing you.

Whatever I put my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Getting ready to read some Murakami.
Recently read Shanataram, then some Tom Robbins and Jack Kerouac. All good, except sometimes Kerouac is surprisingly dated.

Bon Iver, Washed Out, Real Estate, Animal Collective, Bonnie Prince Billy, Metronomy, Bill Callahan, Tom Waits, Hank Williams, George Jones (RIP), Quasimoto, MF Doom, Andrew Bird, Peaking Lights, Rhye, James Blake, Foxygen, Parquet Courts. It's all over the place I know...

Errol Morris documentaries, Coen brothers, and I will still admit I like Wes Anderson. Oh, and that Planet Earth series was freaking amazing.

Arrested Development, Breaking Bad, Daily Show, 30 Rock, Louie, Battlestar Galactica.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Motorcycle trips upstate
Roberta's cornmeal pancakes
A frosty beverage after work
Increased heart rate
Only five things it seems.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Let's be real, besides food, sex and money? Cats of course.

The cats thing is a joke. One wouldn't think that would have to be explained....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately working, but sometimes going out to dinner with friends. Sometimes working on a project. This past winter I was building a dining room table on Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Kinky is sexy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're not ashamed to be on this site.
I prefer brunettes
You've been camping or would want to try.
You realize there is a entire world beyond Manhattan, and it's worth visiting!
You're educated, cultured, stylish and insatiable.