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38 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:10pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My grandmother gave me the handle I use on this website. She used to tell me I had sand in my shoes because I would never stay in one place very long.... she also called me a fart in a whirlwind, but I don't think that phrasing would attract many women to my dating profile.

I'm a bit less of an itinerant vagabond these days, but still need to sate the wanderlust from time to time. I've seen a fair amount of the world and tried my hand at enough tasks to have some good stories and a bit of perspective.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Searching for One Eyed Willie's treasure. Hustling. Learning. Becoming proficient and moving on. Used to want to chage the world, now I've learned you'll be lucky to just change yourself. I work for myself, and right now I am working a lot. I honestly don't have much free time, but it would be nice to meet someone who could make me want to change that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using my hands. Saying my peace.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Silver fox
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read mostly fiction. Right now it's "Things Fall Apart"

Bon Iver, Washed Out, Kurt Vile, Real Estate, Animal Collective, Bonnie Prince Billy, Metronomy, Bill Callahan, Tom Waits, Hank Williams, George Jones (RIP), Quasimoto, MF Doom, Andrew Bird, Peaking Lights, Rhye, James Blake, Foxygen, Parquet Courts.

Obsessed with Cosmos right now. Arrested Development, Breaking Bad, Daily Show, Louie, Battlestar Galactica.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Motorcycle trips upstate
Roberta's cornmeal pancakes
A frosty beverage after work
Increased heart rate
Only five things it seems.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Let's be real, besides food, sex and money? Cats of course.

The cats thing is a joke. One wouldn't think that would have to be explained....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately working, but sometimes going out to dinner with friends. Sometimes working on a project. This past winter I was building a dining room table on Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Kind of kinky is kind of sexy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're not ashamed to be on this site.
I prefer brunettes.
You like the outdoors.
You're educated, cultured, stylish and insatiable.
If you're down to meet for a quick coffee or drink. I value real human interaction over texting forever just to find there's no real chemistry when we meet.