I am looking for a guy, who doesn't see me as a silent tool, a good home decoration, an emotional trashcan or just an intelligent and hard-working professional partner. I am looking for a guy, who will care for me and appreciate me as a woman. I am looking for a guy who is able to and is willing to support me and let me depend on him when I am vulnerable. That's difficult? Yes. Am I picky? Super! But just let me cross-finger, for a miracle.
Come from China, have been here for more than 4 years, 3rd year Ph.D student. My specific research area is fun and weird but I don't want to say it clearly here.
Intelligent conversation is super important for me. I really wish I can find someone whom I look upon to. So yes, I am a nerd but not boring. Well, if you are a super party dog, I may be very boring for you.
In my leisure time, I often stay at home, watching TV, playing games and doing some handwork including cross stitch, ribbon embroidery, painting with numbers and etc. I also enjoy nature (I once went to Tibet for a whole month to shoot a documentary film). But sadly is, I don't have too many chances to enjoy nature after came to America.
I am bad at sports... What is my favorite sport? Meh, I can swim, bike golf, and roller skate. "Can" means "only be able to". Some extreme sports sounds very attractive to me but still, did not have a chance to try before. BTW, I really love roller coaster.
I am looking for someone who is intelligent and serious about relationship. It doesn't mean that I will think about serious relationship or marriage at the first date. But I at least need to know that what page we are in. I refuse someone who always makes me confused. I refuse someone who always uses drunk as an excuse to lie to me and toy me.
I don't want to hide that I have been seriously wounded in last relationship. I stupidly fell in love with a wrong guy, who even does not know how to respect and appreciate me. I am trying my best to forget him and cut him off from my life now. But it is very very very difficult for me. I hope I can find someone who can help me to forget him.
BTW, I was not born and raised in U.S so there will be cultural gap. I have tried hard to get involved in American culture. But, I have only spoken English for 4 years and I still cannot speak as a native speaker. I am looking for someone who can accept and handle this inconvenience.