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sandra1987_yan

28 Bloomington, IN Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:37am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
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I am looking for a guy, who doesn't see me as a silent tool, a good home decoration, an emotional trashcan or just a intelligent and hard-working professional partner. I am looking for a guy, who will care for me and appreciate me as a woman. I am looking for a guy who is able to and is willing to support me and let me depend on him when I am vulnerable. That's difficult? Yes. Am I picky? Super! But just let me cross-finger, for a miracle.
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Come from China, have been here for nearly 4 years, Ph.D student. My specific research area is funny and weird but I don't want to say it clearly here.

Intelligent conversation is super important for me. I really wish I can find someone whom I look upon to. So yes, I am a nerd but not boring. Well, if you are a super party dog, I may be very boring for you.

In my leisure time, I often stay at home, watching TV, playing games and doing some handwork including cross stitch, ribbon embroidery, painting with numbers and etc. I also enjoy nature (I once went to Tibet for a whole month to shoot a documentary film). But sadly is, I don't have too many chances to enjoy nature after came to America.

I am bad at sports... What is my favorite sport? Meh, I can swim, bike and roller skate. "Can" means "only be able to". Some extreme sports sounds very attractive to me but still, did not have a chance to try before. BTW, I really love roller coaster.

I am looking for someone who is intelligent and serious about relationship. It doesn't mean that I will think about serious relationship or marriage at the first date. But I at least need to know that what page we are in. I refuse someone who always makes me confused. I refuse someone who always uses drunk as an excuse to lie to me and toy me.

I don't want to hide that I have been seriously wounded in last relationship. I stupidly fell in love with a wrong guy, who even does not know how to respect and appreciate me. I am trying my best to forget him and cut him off from my life now. But it is very very very difficult for me. I hope I can find someone who can help me to forget him.

BTW, I was not born and raised in U.S so there will be cultural gap. I have tried hard to get involved in American culture. But, I have only spoken English for about 4 years and I still cannot speak as a native speaker. I am looking for someone who can accept and handle this inconvenience.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Wish to finish my Ph.D program in next several years and then find a faculty position in America.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, handwork. In addition, I am really talkative.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Big eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Criminal minds
Musical
Chinese food
Love every kind of books. Wish I can know something in every area.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My laptop
Books
Talktative friends
Interest research topic
Spicy food
Pumpkin (my kitty)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future
My research
Can anyone teach me any kind of sports because I really have problem of coordination.
Can I really find my happy life after all those hard times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Stay at home, cooking and reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look like really tough and bold but very shy and vulnerable inside.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're smart.
You're also weird.
You think we will have a lot of common language.
You don't care that I still have scar in my heart.
Most important: you're emotionally mature.