I am looking for a guy, who doesn't see me as a silent tool, a good home decoration, an emotional trashcan or just an intelligent and hard-working professional partner. I am looking for a guy, who will care for me and appreciate me as a woman. I am looking for a guy who is able to and is willing to support me and let me depend on him when I am vulnerable. That's difficult? Yes. Am I picky? Super! But just let me cross-finger, for a miracle.
Come from China, have been here for more than 4 years, 3rd year Ph.D student. My specific research area is fun and weird but I don't want to say it clearly here.
Intelligent conversation is super important for me. I really wish I can find someone whom I look upon to. So yes, I am a nerd but not boring. Well, if you are a super party dog, I may be very boring for you.
In my leisure time, I often stay at home, watching TV, playing games and doing some handwork including cross stitch, ribbon embroidery, painting with numbers and etc. I also enjoy nature (I once went to Tibet for a whole month to shoot a documentary film). But sadly is, I don't have too many chances to enjoy nature after came to America.
I am bad at sports... What is my favorite sport? Meh, I can swim, bike, golf, and roller skate. "Can" means "only be able to". Some extreme sports sounds very attractive to me but still, did not have too many chances to try before. I tried scuba diving recently and it was so amazing. I am planning to get a scuba diving certificate soon. In addition, I really love roller coaster.
I am looking for someone who is intelligent and serious about relationship. It doesn't mean that I will think about serious relationship or marriage at the first date. But I at least need to know that what page we are in. I refuse someone who always makes me confused. I refuse someone who always uses drunk as an excuse to lie to me and toy me.
I don't want to hide that I have been seriously wounded in last relationship. I stupidly fell in love with a wrong guy, who even does not know how to respect and appreciate me. I am trying my best to forget him and cut him off from my life now. But it is very very very difficult for me. I hope I can find someone who can help me to forget him.
BTW, I was not born and raised in U.S so there will be cultural gap. I have tried hard to get involved in American culture. But, I have only spoken English for 4 years and I still cannot speak as a native speaker. I am looking for someone who can accept and handle this inconvenience.
Love every kind of books. Wish I can know something in every area.
Interest research topic
Pumpkin (my kitty)
Can anyone teach me any kind of sports because I really have problem of coordination.
Can I really find my happy life after all those hard times.
You're also weird.
You think we will have a lot of common language.
You don't care that I still have scar in my heart.
You are always straightforward.
Most important: you're emotionally mature.