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sanfranciclista

33 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English, Chinese (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
I enjoy breaking the rules and coloring outside the lines. I highly value inappropriate humor, awkward moments, and pushing myself beyond the boundaries of social convention. Staying comfortable all the time is not at all my thing.

I'm hungry - for reality and the truth of the matter, as hard to accept or unpleasant as it may be. I hate pretention, and pretentious people get on my bad side quickly. I can't swallow bullshit, as one friend tells me, and I won't try to feed you bullshit either. No matter who you are, what you believe, or how you live, if you're honest, thoughtful and self-aware about it, we can be friends.

I like to laugh, be with my friends, read, analyze things, and ride my bike. I try not to take myself or life too seriously, but my friends say I am intense, and I guess they're probably right. I am very ambitious and driven. I've had the privilege of traveling all over the world and living in two countries outside the US. Perhaps my greatest love is exploring- the thrill of being on the way to somewhere new!
What I’m doing with my life
Chasing it down, wrestling it to the ground, and squeezing out all the goodness that I can.

Alternatively...

Figuring out how to love the people I love; live the life that I'm living; and do the things that I'm doing, better.
I’m really good at
Microsoft Excel
Proper spelling and punctuation
Problem-solving and analysis
Having a sarcastic or inappropriately humorous rejoinder in every situation
Making meaningful friendships
Creating a sense of adventure in everything I do
Helping others around me get better at whatever they do or want to do
Pushing my boundaries
Telling the truth
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea. My devastatingly rugged good looks???
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Infinite Jest, The Inheritance of Loss, Middlesex, The Great Gatsby, Sacred Games, Personal History: Autobiography of Katharine Graham, The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt, The Rise of Christianity, The Weight of Glory.

Other reading: The Economist, Financial Times, Techcrunch, various poetry (Donne, Yeats, Dylan Thomas are the authors of my 3 faves).

Movies: Chariots of Fire, Braveheart, The Matrix, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Moulin Rouge, Miami Vice, Once, Crash, Anchorman, Monty Python and the Holy Grail. In the Mood for Love.

Music: Arcade Fire, Florence+The Machine, Mumford & Sons, Ben Howard, Tiesto, Justin Timberlake, Rihanna, Radiohead, more when I think of them.

Food: Benu, mission burritos, Nishino and Spinasse in Seattle, chips and salsa, Clif bars.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee
My bike
Sunshine
Goals
Chips and salsa
A passport and a next place to go
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future
Whether I could get away with climbing to the top of the Bay Bridge without getting arrested
Interesting and insightful analyses that I can't wait to do at work when I can make the time
My faith and the strange conundrums life presents us with that test and challenge it
My favorite ideas: redemption, grace, the dignity and worth of every person

You.
On a typical Friday night I am
With friends for a good dinner followed by a movie or drinks or cards or board games or just good conversation at someone's house
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have great appreciation for, and strong opinions about, women's shoes. If you wear good shoes, you should expect regular and gushing compliments on them- even if we're not an item.

Said more simply... I have kind of a thing for shoes. All-around best designs in terms of sheer attractiveness: Jimmy Choo
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You're curious
You're adventurous
You like to break the rules
You like some of the things I like (cycling and good literature being two of the chief ones :)