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34 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 17
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English, Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I enjoy breaking the rules and coloring outside the lines. I highly value inappropriate humor, awkward moments, and pushing myself beyond the boundaries of social convention. Staying comfortable all the time is not at all my thing.

I like to laugh, be with my friends, read, analyze things, and ride my bike. I try not to take myself or life too seriously, but my friends say I am intense, and I guess they're probably right. I am very ambitious and driven (are these good, or bad? Still debating that!). I've had the privilege of traveling all over the world and living in two countries outside the US. Perhaps my greatest love is exploring- the thrill of being on the way to somewhere new!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Chasing it down, wrestling it to the ground, and squeezing out all the goodness that I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Proper spelling and punctuation
Problem-solving and analysis
Having a sarcastic or inappropriately humorous rejoinder in every situation
Excel spreadsheets
Making meaningful friendships
Creating a sense of adventure in everything I do
Helping others around me get better at whatever they do or want to do
Pushing my boundaries
Telling the truth
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea. My devastatingly rugged good looks???
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Infinite Jest, The Inheritance of Loss, Middlesex, The Great Gatsby, Sacred Games, Personal History: Autobiography of Katharine Graham, The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt, The Rise of Christianity, The Weight of Glory.

Other reading: The Economist, Financial Times, Techcrunch, various poetry (Donne, Yeats, Dylan Thomas are the authors of my 3 faves).

Movies: Chariots of Fire, Braveheart, The Matrix, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Moulin Rouge, Miami Vice, Once, Crash, Anchorman, Monty Python and the Holy Grail. In the Mood for Love.

Music: Soundcloud's Deep House channel. Tiesto. Arcade Fire, Florence+The Machine, Mumford & Sons, Ben Howard, Justin Timberlake, Rihanna, Radiohead, more when I think of them.

Food: Benu, mission burritos, Nishino and Spinasse in Seattle, chips and salsa, Clif bars.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My bike
Chips and salsa
A passport and a next place to go
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future
Whether I could get away with climbing to the top of the Bay Bridge without getting arrested
Interesting and insightful analyses that I can't wait to do at work when I can make the time
My faith and the strange conundrums life presents us with that test and challenge it
My favorite ideas: redemption, grace, the dignity and worth of every person

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends for a good dinner followed by a movie or drinks or cards or board games or just good conversation at someone's house
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have great appreciation for, and strong opinions about, women's shoes. If you wear good shoes, you should expect regular and gushing compliments on them- even if we're not an item. All-around best designs in terms of sheer attractiveness: Jimmy Choo
You should message me if
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You're curious
You're adventurous
You like to break the rules