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BrightSideUp843

41 Charlotte, NC Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:18pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Things I’ve learned from online dating…

…everyone’s a world traveler and you’re probably reading this on a Swiss mountain top.

…some people post pictures taken during the Reagan administration – the loafers with no socks should have tipped me off!

…there’s a positive correlation between the words, “No drama, please,” and the amount of drama to expect.

…that “confident” can be a euphemism for “not confident at all”.

I’ve learned that there is nothing more appealing to me than someone who can just be himself both online and off. If you think you’re awesome and think other people are pretty awesome too, then you’re my kind of guy. It takes a special kind of person to not feel the need to better (or worse) than anyone else and who can just be happy in his own skin.

Things I’ve learned about myself:

I’m a happy, optimistic person (I’m still here after all I’ve learned!). I enjoy doing anything creative. I like team sports and being outdoors, but I’ll only go on a run if I’m chasing something - like my dog or the ice cream man. I have a live and let live attitude. I want to be a better person today than I was yesterday. The little things make me happy – like when someone opens a door for me. It’s hard to embarrass me. I think weird is good and authentic is the best. I’m fascinated by people and the wonder of life. I get things done, but sometimes stop just to watch the clouds roll by. I’m usually on-time, but realize on occasion, *&^% happens. Sometimes I’m concerned, but I’m usually not worried. I believe that at the end of the day what matters most are the people I love.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I manage creative people doing web-based design work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a friend. Listening. Expanding my awareness. Knowing what makes people tick. Making good conversation. Being direct, but tactful. Cooking. Wise-cracking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People comment on my smile, so I am going with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a lot of online articles and studies and a handful of fiction and a bunch of non-fiction books each year. I tend to like independent films, documentaries, and too many genres of music to name. I enjoy all kinds of food (cooking it and eating it).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, my family, my dog, introspection, Google & cheese.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything! I always try to figure out the "why" behind the "what". I find people-related issues especially fascinating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? Well, that's boring - I prefer atypical!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's not private if I post it on the world wide web, now is it?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You know who you are and feel pretty good about it! Are well-balanced, good-natured, can be down right silly at times, don't spend much time thinking about what other people think of you, say what you mean and mean what you say, have a long fuse, think the glass is half full, and love this crazy life we are lucky enough to live!