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sansordinn

30 M São Paulo, Brazil

My Details

Last Online
Jan 9
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Dislikes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm an academic, a nerd, & a fetishistic hedonist. I'm in an open marriage with marciaboiko. I'm bi, poly, & multifaceted. I'm still standing for some false, impossible shore. I love deviant queer people, and support feminism. I walk in beauty, & fire walks with me.
What I’m doing with my life
am in a far-reaching quest to become a neo-philologist, specializing in Japanese studies. I want to reunite linguistics, literature, and cultural studies into a single whole.

at this particular point in time I'm simultaneously a college employee, an undergrad, ~and~ a grad student. (long story.)
I’m really good at
Reading, researching, writing, thinking, not specializing, making tea, bonding with cats, analyzing books I haven't read, arbitrarily creating meaning out of anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
that I easily get enthusiastic about many, unrelated topics.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"High" literature and "low" literature, poetry and fiction, science and mysticism, art and theory, analytic and continental, East and West. Fantasy more than sci-fi. Classical Japanese lit a special taste.

A sampling of important influences: Barthes, Valéry, Nietzsche, Sei Shōnagon, Kawabata, Feynman, Bashō, Helen DeWitt, Araki, R.H. Blyth, Burroughs, that one Rilke poem that will haunt me forever.

A few favourite fandoms: Tolkien, Peter S. Beagle, George Martin, Terry Pratchett, Alan Moore, Shōjo Kakumei Utena, Mother/Earthbound, Inio Asano, CLAMP everything.

Some extraneous interests: anthropology, philosophy, history, typography, calligraphy (Western & East Asian), songs, folklore & myth &c.

Serious crushes: Icelandic, Finnish, Latin, Old English, Old Tupi, Classical Chinese, Ancient Greek.

Little delights: ampersands, superstitions, tea ceremony, heavy metal solos, sound symbolism, casual crossdressing, naïve Orientalism, the French revolutionary calendar.
The six things I could never do without
Books, cats, interesting conversations, the subdued yet uncannily blissful sensation of holding a cup of warm beverage in a cold windy night, kinky depraved sex, a foreign culture/language/literary tradition to immerse myself in.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever I'm reading; whatever I'm theoretically supposed to be writing; death; life; alternative ways of thinking (e.g. narrative logic, dream logic, Nintendo logic, magical thinking, the formalism of folktales et cetera); comparative anthropology; philosophy of linguistics & theoretical debates; the delicate relationship between fiction, mental models, and reality; things wrong with society and how to fix them; how and why language can be beautiful; hey look at this neat little sprout I wonder what it's called.
On a typical Friday night I am
Procrastinating on a deadline by studying on something completely irrelevant to what I should be doing; or, working like a madman to meet a long-unheeded deadline.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm actually aroused by the scent of sweaty skin—
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–100
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're interested in meeting in real life, comfortable with polyamorous people, independent, and enjoy long intellectual conversations.

You don't have to be particularly kinky or into BDSM to talk to me, just not judgmental about it!