Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I specialize in the dichotomous. I'm both shy and outgoing. I'm
spontaneous and predictable. I like to be appreciated (who
doesn't?). I don't enjoy the spotlight, but love to bask in
admiration. I'm openminded, and like hanging around others who are
as well. I love conversation and adventure, and going out to do
nothing in particular with good friends. Mostly, I'm just me. I
I also have husband. He is tmeerkat
. I am polyamorous
. This does not mean I
cheat on him. Poly means, literally, many loves. I value honesty
and practice it in my daily life. I am currently looking for people
to hang out with, but am always open to more happening. One of my
mottos is "Friends first." If you can't be friends, why be anything
I am openminded, original, and dichotomous. Childlike in my joy and
simplicity of outlook, but rarely childish.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a teacher, a massage therapist, an actor occasionally. I
haven't figured out what I want to be when I grow up though. I have
lots of interests and things I'm good at, but no deep and abiding
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many, many things. Some of them are; massage, teaching, hugs,
kissing, snuggles, games (I only play the ones that I win...),
figuring things out, reading people, cooking, reading, playing,
dancing, sewing. There are many others. The list could go on and
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hair? Personality? People seem to remember me, especially if I'm
dancing at the time. Anyone who knows me want to help me out on
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love sci-fi and fantasy in books. I've been moving more toward
the sci-fi than fantasy lately, though I still enjoy a good romp
through the type imagination fantasy supplies. A current favorite
author is Robert Sawyer. He packs his books with complex ideas
worth thinking about.
Movies? Who has time for movies? Some of my all time favorites are
Princess Bride, Highlander, Labrinth, Dirty Dancing, and The Long
In music, I like everything but rap, and even some of that isn't
bad. My favorites are country, 80's pop, and musicals. I love
Melissa Ethridge. My favorite songs ever include "Who Wants to Live
Forever" by Queen and "On the Turning Away" by Pink Floyd. My
tastes run all over on this one.
The more varied the food, the better. I've done some traveling, and
liked the food everywhere I've gone. Malaysia was the most
interesting. I was recently introduced to Ethiopian, and that is
good! Sushi is always a favorite! Mostly, I like food, and having
access to different tastes and textures.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, music, food (read as dark chocolate), adventure,
intellectual stimulation. I don't know what else. I'll have to
think about it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
No one. I like my brain where it is. Obviously an answer based on a
former question... but I sort of like it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about psychology and how the world
works. Why we do the things we do, but without obsessing over it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I could be anywhere. At home cooking with my hubby and watching
videos, out on the town with friends, dancing, socializing at a
restaurant, out of town, visiting people, dancing at CSPC
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask and I'll most likely tell. If you don't care, I won't bore you
You should message me if
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