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saphrodi

39 F Enumclaw, WA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 24–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:02pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French, German, Spanish, Sign Language

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My self-summary
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I specialize in the dichotomous. I'm both shy and outgoing. I'm spontaneous and predictable. I like to be appreciated (who doesn't?). I don't enjoy the spotlight, but love to bask in admiration. I'm openminded, and like hanging around others who are as well. I love conversation and adventure, and going out to do nothing in particular with good friends. Mostly, I'm just me. I have cat.

I also have husband. He is tmeerkat. I am polyamorous. This does not mean I cheat on him. Poly means, literally, many loves. I value honesty and practice it in my daily life. I am currently looking for people to hang out with, but am always open to more happening. One of my mottos is "Friends first." If you can't be friends, why be anything else?

I am openminded, original, and dichotomous. Childlike in my joy and simplicity of outlook, but rarely childish.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a teacher, a massage therapist, an actor occasionally. I haven't figured out what I want to be when I grow up though. I have lots of interests and things I'm good at, but no deep and abiding single focus.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many, many things. Some of them are; massage, teaching, hugs, kissing, snuggles, games (I only play the ones that I win...), figuring things out, reading people, cooking, reading, playing, dancing, sewing. There are many others. The list could go on and on.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hair? Personality? People seem to remember me, especially if I'm dancing at the time. Anyone who knows me want to help me out on this one?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love sci-fi and fantasy in books. I've been moving more toward the sci-fi than fantasy lately, though I still enjoy a good romp through the type imagination fantasy supplies. A current favorite author is Robert Sawyer. He packs his books with complex ideas worth thinking about.

Movies? Who has time for movies? Some of my all time favorites are Princess Bride, Highlander, Labrinth, Dirty Dancing, and The Long Kiss Goodnight.

In music, I like everything but rap, and even some of that isn't bad. My favorites are country, 80's pop, and musicals. I love Melissa Ethridge. My favorite songs ever include "Who Wants to Live Forever" by Queen and "On the Turning Away" by Pink Floyd. My tastes run all over on this one.

The more varied the food, the better. I've done some traveling, and liked the food everywhere I've gone. Malaysia was the most interesting. I was recently introduced to Ethiopian, and that is good! Sushi is always a favorite! Mostly, I like food, and having access to different tastes and textures.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, music, food (read as dark chocolate), adventure, intellectual stimulation. I don't know what else. I'll have to think about it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
No one. I like my brain where it is. Obviously an answer based on a former question... but I sort of like it.

I spend a lot of time thinking about psychology and how the world works. Why we do the things we do, but without obsessing over it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I could be anywhere. At home cooking with my hubby and watching videos, out on the town with friends, dancing, socializing at a restaurant, out of town, visiting people, dancing at CSPC.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask and I'll most likely tell. If you don't care, I won't bore you with it!
You should message me if
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