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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
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Relationship Type
5' 9" (1.74m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Fluently), Hebrew (Somewhat), Finnish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My daily life pretty much revolves around practicing music, drinking tea, sipping whisky, walking around the city, reading history books, watching classic movies and watering my plants. If that sounds dull to you, you will find me incredibly boring.

I think physical chemistry is very important. Maybe some people can be friends and see the chemistry kick in later, but that doesn't work for me. So I am looking for a lover first - not a friend, not a far fetched supernatural connection, not a one night stand, and certainly not a pen pal.

I also think that how you choose to spend your daily life is much more important and interesting than what are supposed to be big events like holidays & outings.

And finally I think I place a really high importance on the idea of equality. I'm not talking about rights, but really the idea that there is equal strength of character and drive.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- I work for an international organization during the day.
- I sing opera - I'm a baritone.
- I play metal/blues-rock guitar the rest of the time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Not missing Paris but not that good at not missing my sisters and nephew and nieces.
- Listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think they feel I'm shy or serious but then they start to understand my sense of humor... or not. You can't please everybody.

Ah and I'm 1m74 tall so that's in fact more than 5'8" but not 5'9". I recently discovered there is quite a gap between 5'8" and 5'9". Mysteries of the Imperial system.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Here are objects/foods I like/use all the time: guitars, boots, tomatoes, my glasses, contact lenses for the ocean and scuba and on stage, jeans, single malt whisky, opera scores.

I mention whisky but I do not like to be drunk and I don't enjoy the company of people who are on the verge of passing out from intoxication.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm not planning complicated things and not asking you to change the world - especially not mine.

I'm rather suspicious of people who don't like children. I think that most children are much wittier and more entertaining than most adults.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a sucker for some of those things: a big smile, large teeth, bangs, pale skin, high cheek bones, freckles, some accents, a mix of 1930s, 60s & 70s fashion and preppy looks...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You think of yourself as a woman rather than as a girl. I think by that I mean someone responsible and who has class.

- You look like your pictures and have pictures who look like you.

- You are ready to meet in person sooner than later. Really : endless emailing with a stranger is like drinking soup with chop sticks. That goes for afterwards, let's get to know each other in person and not keep an email blog together.