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sapiensvervet

45 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:01pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Finnish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a pretty happy person with a mix of idealism and realism.
I grew up in Brasil then Paris where I was a lawyer until I left for NY.

It would be pretty cool to find a warm hearted woman, with an edge, with style, grounded, a practical intellectual, with a strong character, who will have a sense of humor and appreciate mine, who will be focused on her passion in life but ready to have a relationship based on affection, mutual attraction and some silliness.

I'd like to meet a girlfriend but if that's too much to ask I'd settle for a lover. Things can also evolve I suppose?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- I work as an Editor for an international organization during the day.
- I sing opera - I'm a baritone.
- I play blues/rock guitar the rest of the time.
- On vacation, my favourite things to do are hiking in deserts or diving underwater.

When I go out, I prefer a lounge or bar where the music is not too loud and you can hear your friends talking to you. I know some pretty good ones too!
I also enjoy staying at home, making food and watching a movie.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not missing Paris but not that good at not missing my sisters and nephew and nieces.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think they feel I'm shy or serious but then they start to understand my sense of humor... or not.

Ah and I'm 1m73 tall so that's in fact more than 5'8" but not 5'9". I recently discovered there is quite a gap between 5'8" and 5'9". Mysteries of the Imperial system.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
here are objects/foods I like/use all the time: guitars, boots, my glasses, jeans, opera scores
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I guess I want what everybody wants. Someone to laugh with, share things we like or discover new things, hug, go to bed together and have breakfast. I'm not planning complicated things and not asking you to change the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a sucker for a big smile.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You think of yourself as a woman rather than as a girl.
- You don't have a history of being in abusive relationships, don't think passing out from susbstance abuse is in any way funny or interesting and definitely would not describe yourself as a psycho. Not my thing thanks.
- You are ready to meet in person sooner than later. Really : endless emailing with a stranger is like drinking soup with chop sticks. That goes for afterwards, let's get to know each other in person and not keep an email blog together.