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49 • Lexington, KY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 39–57
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Oct 2
- 5' 3" (1.60m)
- Body Type
- Has kids
I am currently doing part time and temp work, I feel like at the least I'll get a book out of it if not full time, gainful employment. I have a few people I take care of, some as employment and some family, and am looking for more to fill my days and time. I volunteer a few places, mostly with seniors. They have great stories.
organizing, especially making spaces functional, although I have hit a personal wall regarding this lately. It's easier to help other people with their stuff, so much less sentimentality involved
baking- bread and desserts
different kinds of crafts, especially with kids of all ages
repurposing all kinds of things for new lives- storage, decorative, what have you
packing- I can look at something and know just how to make it fit. Smallish spacial stuff, I'm all over. Distances, not so much, but maybe that's because I have next to no depth perception past oh, the length of my arm. It's a fun game at the breakfast table to see if I can read the cereal box or not before contacts and sans glasses.
Usually I'm a rom com or drama kind of girl; I like comedies and thrillers but horror movies, not so much.
Music, I'm not really picky and can be happy with whatever happens to be playing wherever I am, so unless you only do techno or idolize misogynistic rappers, I'm probably fine with whatever you have on, otherwise I'm pretty much a top 40 sell out. I told somebody I was a music slut, I was fine to go along with pretty much anything as long as something was on, but now I'm all worried about advancing myself as a loose woman and all that, SIGH. The last time I dated, my available pool was college aged music majors, so I got an eclectic formative shaping, there. I love going to the philharmonic, jazz makes me happy, blues make me appropriately melancholy, and omg sometimes I so want to dance. (I crazy love square dancing, I know it's geeky but the flippy skirts and goofy music do me in.) Country music is fine, and yes, I harbor a fond love for 80s ballads that if you can't at least shuffle and sway and pretend to slow dance with me to them, you may want to find another drink or perhaps find another date. Or maybe you should give me another drink to distract me. If you can really dance, I will do my best to keep up, and I'll be right there with you if you want to go to classes.
I'm a fairly mainstream eater but if you're a good guide I will try out new cuisines, if slowly- I tried Pho BC and Sav's and didn't freak out, but that's exotic to me. I like cookout food, Italian, Asian, Mexican, and good old American food, but feel like I can cook you just as good a meal as anyone else in town can. I love to feed groups, and if there's a party, I'll want to be in the kitchen, helping with the food. I'd seriously consider going back to restaurant work full time if only to geek out to the commercial ranges and have the socially acceptable outlet of rotating stock and getting paid for it, but my last gig aggravated my tennis elbow, and the last time I touched a racquet was to take it to Goodwill. Right now I'm doing some part time serving.
I find it hard to justify lighting charcoal for just myself, so I'm missing decent grilled food, too.
books: in the house and at the library, ebooks are great but not nearly the same. I'm debating an ereader, any advice?
art supplies: my copic markers, pretty paper, good scissors, fabulous brushes, and just the right glue. I need to divest myself of scrapbook stuff, but I just love the paper.
desserts: cookies, chocolate, ice cream, fruit. I can eat some dessert. I love tiramasu.
people: my kids, my neighbors, my nieces and nephews and most of their parents. The little bits are getting pretty big, the big ones are nearly grown.
options: I'm like the kid who wishes for three more wishes with the third wish, I prefer "opportunistic" to "cheating", thank you very much.
my boys- five, mostly grown, and my nieces and nephews- ten, mostly small
what "appropriate" is at my age, at my stage of life/motherhood, and why I even care
what the next big project in the house or yard is
why I'm asking the Internet to help me with any of this to begin with
catching up with my kids as they come and go for the weekend
snugged up reading or making cards, listening to whatever noise is on the tv
wondering what other people are doing LOL
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