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28 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:51pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Used up
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
i hate filling out self-summaries. i feel like there's so much to say about oneself. i don't like sparing the details although i do love a good mystery.
i like to think that i'm a thinker. i find myself pondering often. if humans are the only animals that bear this gift, i'd like to use the shit out of it. i love profanity. i am highly opinionated, but i'm pretty open-minded. no harm, no foul. i appreciate honesty in all forms - brutal or abrupt doesn't matter, i'll take true over false any day of the week. i love to meet new people, but i also hate them. i love trying new things, but they also scare me. i love to speak my mind, but i've got a lot of walls. i love contradictions. everything is contradictory in one way or another. i love humor - dry, sarcastic, silly, sass... i invite them all. please have a good sense of humor... otherwise we probably won't get along.
What I’m doing with my life
i'm looking to meet people and start new paths. i've been on a "new" kick these days. keeps me on my toes. i've dabbled in a bit of world travel and am always itching for new endeavors where money allows. i'd love to see the world. for now i'd love to just live for the present with the future in sight... just enough to see it. mostly, i'm just enjoying the ride... hands in the air as often as possible.
I’m really good at
painting and drawing... all things creative. i'm trying to muster some inspiration/motivation for art again.
photography... i LOVE pictures.
singing (obnoxiously loud)
being an asshole (not viciously, but to be funny)
being kind
being generous
having compassion... almost too good at it. i'm sometimes overly empathetic. yes, that's possible.
being sassy.
i'm realizing that most of these are just things i like doing and that the "good at" part is self-proclaimed.
The first things people usually notice about me
i suppose it depends on who's looking. mostly good things? you tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: white fluffy clouds, from the murks of the sultry abyss, siddhartha, running with scissors, lord of the flies, fragile things, everything's eventual, man's search for meaning... i'd like to start reading more now that i'm not in school. college really sucked the fun out of reading for me, but i'd really like to get back into it.

movies: i heart huckabees, one flew over the cuckoos nest, weatherman, perfume, adaptation, men who stare at goats, fantastic mr. fox, the darjeeling limited, rushmore, moonrise kingdom (ok, i'm really into wes anderson), religulous, beginners, the big lebowski, fear and loathing in las vegas, full metal jacket, the shining, misery... the list goes on forever. i'm kind of addicted to movies... recently i've been watching a lot of documentaries on netflix.

music: music is super important to me. i go see music of some sort at least once a month. this list is ridiculously long... as i'm sure it is for most people. black moth super rainbow, tobacco, the xx, neon indian, toro y moi, andrew bird, fleet foxes, city and colour, animal collective, minus the bear, tokyo police club, incubus, gotye, sigur ros, winter gloves, crystal castles, prince, mj, the kinks, david bowie, gorillaz, say anything, cold war kids, peter bjorn and john... list goes on and on. i rhymed.
The six things I could never do without
paints/canvas (i realize these are clearly 2 separate things, but i lumped them together so i could write more than 6 (i like pointing out obvious things in parentheses))
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything. things that matter most, things that don't matter, and everything between. i'm in my head a lot. i like to think of things in new ways and from different perspectives. i love when people make me think of things i've never thought of before.
the connection between time and space freaks me out. i could think about that for hours.
On a typical Friday night I am
whenever it's my friday, i occasionally like to go out and have some drinks at any typical hole in the wall.
i also enjoy dressing up and going dancing from time to time. i love martinis. i also enjoy the outdoors... being outside is awesome. window shopping, going to dinner or movies, staying in for dinner or movies, sketching, going for walks, reading...
i can also be a bit of a homebody.
sometimes i like to hide.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i have webbed toes
ok so that's not true... but if i did, i'd be willing to admit that.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating