Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an intelligent, independent, warm, loving, caring, creative,
energetic and mature woman, with a good balance of work and play in
I can be smart and I can be silly. I love to laugh and do so on my
own, quite often.
I have few regrets and have a positive, upbeat attitude.
I am very health conscious and in very good shape.
I like to play hard and work hard and know how to do both quite
I am a "responsible hedonist." (I may have invented that phrase).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a good job that brings together many of my skills and
interests, and is a culmination of my education and job
experiences. A job that has great societal value. I give it the
time required to earn my keep but look forward to having life
outside of work.
I am raising a college-age daughter. I am her parent along with her
Dad who has joint custody. I also have pets (cat, fish, guinea pig)
and would like another dog some day.
I have a nice circle of friends that Ive accumulated here in NC
after almost 30 years as a resident. I enjoy going to the many
cultural, community, social, educational and sports activities the
triangle has to offer.
I rake alot of leaves. This is what happens when you have alot of
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Identifying solutions to problems.
Most academic subjects (and tests), including math and chemistry
(which everyone hates); also languages, philosophy, writing.
Organizing people, things, and activities.
Taking care of people and animals (Im a nurturer).
Understanding people's (and animal's) needs (see above).
Playing it by ear.
Making quick decisions, responding to emergencies.
Travelling, especially to new places.
Reading a map.
Figuring out how to have a good time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My red hair then my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Non fiction essays such as Gladwell's and Efron's.
Biographies of interesting people.
Sushi and Asian fusion. Brie. Champagne.
Blues, jazz, rock, classical, new age.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six! How generous.
*However, since Ive just gone 7 weeks without any (on purpose), Ive
moved this item down to the botttom. Could definitely NOT go this
long without the other 5. May have to think of a replacement:
"creating things" is one candidate; "friends" may be another.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to have fun. How to do my job better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Im mostly an atheist (but have strong life code similar to
christian with alot of buddist overtones)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
(and only if) You are a LIBERAL. Are Caucasian, Mid-Eastern, or
American Indian. At or over 5'10". Like independent women. Are
kind, gentle, and affectionate. Have had alot of luck in life. Are
mostly happy. In good shape and not overweight. Do not have a
ponytail. Have a steady job and/or steady income. Have at least a
Do not send your phone number and tell me to call you. Do not ask
to meet. Email me and tell me about yourself. Only 100 mile radius
of Hillsborough NC please.
Who are you looking for?
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