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44 Philadelphia, PA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 35–70
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 14
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly vegetarian
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Quaker, children's librarian, daughter, little sister, aunt, poet, fanfiction author, singer, cat-lover. Spent five years of childhood in the South Pacific. I love the opportunity to speak or write in Spanish. In recent years, I've become a fan of various anime, manga, and manhwa; I'm currently working on learning Japanese.

Overarching Goals: to live in a simpler/more earth-friendly/more peacemaking way; to have stronger connections with people in my life; to savor life while it is given to me. To go deeper and live broader.

Short-Term Objectives: to clean up my apartment!; to seek out/make opportunities to sing and dance; to follow through on commitments and correspondence; to become better informed/more of an activist on issues that matter to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Doesn't that depend on the person noticing? I haven't gone quizzing folks for their first impressions of me...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*Connecting with other humans
*Some degree of solitude
*Food, shelter, water
*Independence--being recognized as an autonomous adult
*Access to kitties!
*Ways to express myself--music, song, dance, writing...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading manga on my computer; or hanging out with family; or out with a friend; or grocery shopping; or at my therapy appointment. :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I admit nothing!

Okay, I admit that depression has been and is a part of my life--sometimes it settles down in the middle of the room, a fuzzy gray presence that sheds its fur everywhere, starts eating my cheese curls and plays music I don't like. Learning to navigate around it is an ongoing process for me.

I find it interesting that in some situations in my life, it's higher-stakes to reveal my struggles with depression, while in others it would be my bisexuality; in others, being a fanfiction author; still others, not identifying as explicitly Christian. To you, OkCupid, I unveil all of the above!

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