Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


43 San Diego, CA Man


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 25
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Practical, silly, intelligent, fun-loving atheist seeking similar for fun, friendship, and more. East-coast transplant, but have been out here for over a decade. Ex-catholic, with all of the baggage...? perks...? that that entails. I'm a good conversationalist and a good listener with a strong sense of humor and a sharp mind. Honesty, conviction, integrity, and straightforwardness are important values to me. I am loyal to a fault and I respect people who mean what they say and say what they mean.

I'm a big movie and anime buff and I also enjoy reading, spending time in the ocean (body-boarding, snorkeling, scuba, and attempting to surf :), hiking, camping, poker, pool, frisbee, and racquetball.

On the political side I lean libertarian.

I'm looking for someone similar but hopefully with some interesting differences.

I am responsible, unconventional, and experimental
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring, everything:

-interesting ideas
-interesting people (I collect them!)
-business opportunities

I returned to the corporate world 4 years ago, after working for a number of years as a freelance consultant and tinkering with business ideas. I work at the intersection of biotech and computers, supporting biofuels research.

I went to Burning Man five years in a row, but now I'm taking time off and focusing on the regional events and local burner community.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Learning something new.
-Seeing the big picture.
-Putting together seemingly unconnected things.
-Over-thinking and over-planning.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I strongly prefer substance over style. Substance without style is fine, style without substance is terrible, and substance with style is amazing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
[ Books ]: Mostly sci-fi along with a fair amount of non-fiction. Ender's Game, Dune series, The Dosadi Experiment, The Name of the Wind, The Undercover Economist, Atlas Shrugged, A Song of Ice and Fire (Game of Thrones) series.

[ Movies ]: Casablanca, The Fifth Element, Serenity, Ghost in the Shell, Pi, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Fight Club, Memento, City of Lost Children, Joe Vs. The Volcano, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead, Strictly Ballroom, Princess Bride, Secretary, many more.

[ TV ] : Rick and Morty, Adventure Time, Community, Archer, Futurama, Doctor Who, Mythbusters, Babylon 5, Firefly, Coupling, Breaking Bad, How I Met Your Mother, Venture Bros., The Daily Show, Robot Chicken, FLCL.

[ Celebrities/Authors/Entertainers ]: Patrick Rothfuss (that man can write!), Robert Heinlein, Frank Herbert, James Burke, Orson Scott Card, Larry Niven, Jackie Chan, Daniel Dennett, Eddie Izzard, Douglas Hofstadter, Richard Dawkins, Gary Oldman, Hayao Miyazaki, Douglas Adams, Ayn Rand, Masamune Shirow.

[ Music ]: Anything, with the exception of country and rap. Classic rock, 80s and 90s, electronic, pop with an eclectic twist. Gotten into electronic music and local underground DJs.

[ Food ]: Thai, Mexican, Japanese, and Chinese are favorites. Just about anything really, with some specific exceptions.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends, good conversation, sex, Costco, computer, interesting projects
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. Technology. Sustainable/responsible hedonism. Relevant tech keywords include: futurism, accelerating change, cryonics, nanotechnology, singularity, transhumanism.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at happy hour with friends, out dancing, in online, or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm less vanilla than I appear.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're interesting, interested, or both. If MBTI:INTJ is more than just alphabet soup to you. If you'd sooner study astronomy than astrology.