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41 M San Diego, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 7
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Practical, silly, intelligent, fun-loving atheist seeking similar for fun, friendship, and more. East-coast transplant, but have been out here for over a decade. Ex-catholic, with all of the baggage...? perks...? that that entails. I'm a good conversationalist and a good listener with a strong sense of humor and a sharp mind. Honesty, conviction, integrity, and straightforwardness are important values to me. I am loyal to a fault and I respect people who mean what they say and say what they mean.

I'm a big movie and anime buff and I also enjoy reading, spending time in the ocean (body-boarding, snorkeling, scuba, and attempting to surf :), hiking, camping, poker, pool, frisbee, and racquetball.

On the political side I lean libertarian.

I'm looking for someone similar but hopefully with some interesting differences.

I am responsible, unconventional, and experimental
What I’m doing with my life
Exploring, everything:

-interesting ideas
-interesting people (I collect them!)
-business opportunities

I returned to the corporate world 4 years ago, after working for a number of years as a freelance consultant and tinkering with business ideas. I work at the intersection of biotech and computers, supporting biofuels research.

I went to Burning Man five years in a row, but now I'm taking time off and focusing on the regional events and local burner community.
I’m really good at
-Learning something new.
-Seeing the big picture.
-Putting together seemingly unconnected things.
-Over-thinking and over-planning.
The first things people usually notice about me
I strongly prefer substance over style. Substance without style is fine, style without substance is terrible, and substance with style is amazing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
[ Books ]: Mostly sci-fi and a bit of non-fiction. Ender's Game, Dune series, The Dosadi Experiment, The Name of the Wind, The Undercover Economist, Atlas Shrugged, A Song of Ice and Fire (Game of Thrones) series.

[ Movies ]: Casablanca, The Fifth Element, Serenity, Ghost in the Shell, Pi, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Fight Club, Memento, City of Lost Children, Joe Vs. The Volcano, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead, Strictly Ballroom, Princess Bride, Secretary, many more.

[ TV ] : Archer, Futurama, Doctor Who, Mythbusters, Babylon 5, Firefly, Coupling, Breaking Bad, How I Met Your Mother, Venture Bros., The Daily Show, Robot Chicken, FLCL.

[ Celebrities/Authors/Entertainers ]: Patrick Rothfuss (that man can write!), Robert Heinlein, Frank Herbert, James Burke, Orson Scott Card, Larry Niven, Jackie Chan, Daniel Dennett, Eddie Izzard, Douglas Hofstadter, Richard Dawkins, Gary Oldman, Hayao Miyazaki, Douglas Adams, Ayn Rand, Masamune Shirow.

[ Music ]: Anything, with the exception of country and rap. Classic rock, 80s and 90s, electronic, pop with an eclectic twist. Gotten into electronic music and local underground DJs.

[ Food ]: Thai, Mexican, Japanese, and Chinese are favorites. Just about anything really, with some specific exceptions.

The six things I could never do without
Good friends, good conversation, sex, Costco, computer, interesting projects
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future. Technology. Sustainable/responsible hedonism. Relevant tech keywords include: futurism, accelerating change, cryonics, nanotechnology, singularity, transhumanism.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out at happy hour with friends, out dancing, in online, or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not as vanilla as I appear.

Curious about the potential of responsible non-monogamy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're interesting, interested, or both. If MBTI:INTJ is more than just alphabet soup to you. If you'd sooner study astronomy than astrology.