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sarhodes11

43 / F / Straight / Single

Belmont, California

Her Details

Last Online
Feb 26
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I have lived in the Bay Area for 26 years and I love it here. We have great weather, although I admit missing warm AZ nights and swimming in a pool at 10:00 PM. It's one of the most beautiful areas of the country with so much to offer. There is always something going on if you feel the need to get out and do something different.
I think my friends would describe me as witty and fun. I am definitely not a partier. I much prefer dinners out with my partner, a great BBQ with friends or having friends over for a casual get together versus late nights and clubs.

I do have a busy job and weekends are a great time for me to catch up around the house, do some gardening, cooking and hopefully some gym time with the pool. But I love to get away once in a while to take a day trip, go to Tahoe for the weekend etc...any weekend activity involving water, I'm in!

I am loyal almost to a fault. I will do anything I can to protect someone's confidence or help out my friends or partners.
I believe that communication is key in a great relationship and relationships do require work. It's not always fun and romance. It's important to talk to your partner and tell them how you are feeling, even when times are tough, especially when times are tough.

I am looking for someone who is fun and easy going but serious about a relationship without a lot of drama. I love a man who is smart and has a great sense of humor. I love to cook and if a man is good in the kitchen that is a bonus! If there is great conversation on the first date that is the first step. If physical chemistry is also there then we are two lucky people!

If any of this resonates with you and if you think we have something in common drop me a message.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the hotel business.
I’m really good at
Cooking and entertaining.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have been into Dexter lately. It's addicting. Favorite book last year was "The Help." Music is a variety, pop, disco, country, oldies, jazz....
The six things I could never do without
God, water, air, my friends and family, sushi, mascara, and the occasional new pair of shoes. Okay that's seven but really there are a lot of necessities in life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to improve myself and my outlook to benefit others. You are what you put out there and I want to put out the good stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working, out to dinner or home cooking. Starting to get back to the gym more lately as well...ahhhh
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Work took over my life the last year or so. I am happy to say its been easier to balance lately. I have more time for myself and others which is a plus.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 39–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you are fun, kind and loyal and looking to meet someone who might end up being your partner in life.