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30 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
English (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The other day I said "Siri" I said "How do you feel about love?" and Siri said "I'm sorry, Sasha, I'm afraid I can't answer that." So I said "What about forever? How do you feel about forever?" and Siri gave me a link to "Forever" by Drake.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing and freelancing and nannying and having a drink and thinking about dinner and cooking dinner and eating dinner and maybe watching a movie or reading a thing and getting an amount of sleep, really any old amount. I mean that life is a mystery, and all across America stories come to such an end.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
When I was in kindergarten I won the enthusiasm award. Not a single thing has happened to me since. I just thought you should know that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Walkmen. Neko Case. Springsteen. Bring it on Home to Me, I Put a Spell on You, Sea of Love, You Really Got a Hold on Me. Punch-Drunk Love. Moonstruck. Wild at Heart. Buffalo '66. Seven Psychopaths. You, the Living. All the Real Girls. Badlands. Mud. Pierrot le Fou. Deadwood. Louie. Hannibal. Adventure Time. Bob's Burgers. Everything Brad Neely ever did and also Twin Peaks, Death to the Tin Man, and Jettison Your Loved Ones.

No Diggity/Pony/Are You That Somebody

I like Oblivion and also The Pale King by DFW and Enormous Changes at the Last Minute by Grace Paley and I like everything Donald Barthelme ever did, and also 2666. And The Master and Margarita and also The Battlefield Where the Moon Says I Love You. And The Way Through Doors. And Barry Hannah and Renata Adler. And Amelia Gray. And James Tate and Frank O'Hara and Josh Bell and Chelsey Minnis.

And I really like Jasper Johns.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Awe. Like the kind of awe that makes you want to collapse, but you can't, so you don't, and you're just there, full of wonder, for like a hot minute. Plus also clean sheets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dinner. I spend a lot of time thinking about what to cook for dinner, and also about Major Briggs's greatest fear, how his greatest fear was the possibility that love is not enough, but I mean these days, what is?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I go hard and then I go home. I cook, and then I chill.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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In my spare time, I enjoy reading, writing, and basic arithmetic.
You should message me if
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You've got a big weird heart.