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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:04pm
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.79m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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The other day I said "Siri" I said "How do you feel about love?" and Siri said "I'm sorry, Sasha, I'm afraid I can't answer that." So I said "What about forever? How do you feel about forever?" and Siri gave me a link to "Forever" by Drake.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing and freelancing and nannying and having a drink and thinking about dinner and cooking dinner and eating dinner and maybe watching a movie or reading a thing and getting an amount of sleep, really any old amount. I mean that life is a mystery, and all across America stories come to such an end.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
When I was in kindergarten I won the enthusiasm award. Not a single thing has happened to me since. I just thought you should know that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Aside from the Walkmen and Neko Case and Roy Orbison and 69 Love Songs and Sea of Love and You've Really Got a Hold on Me and 2666 and Joy Williams and Ben Marcus and Donald Barthelme and Grace Paley and Amelia Gray and Josh Bell and Frank O'Hara and Chelsea Minnis and Punch Drunk Love and All the Real Girls and Moonstruck and Badlands and Mud and Adventure Time and Deadwood and Hannibal and Fargo and Louie, lately I've been thinking about like, the murder mystery version of Two Lane Blacktop, or like if Peter Greenaway did L.A. Confidential. The other day I made spaghetti and meatballs and earlier I made myself an old fashioned. I am real into the Living trilogy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Awe. Like the kind of awe that makes you want to collapse, but you can't, so you don't, and you're just there, full of wonder, with your head and your heart cracked open to let the light in for like a hot minute. Plus also clean sheets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dinner. I spend a lot of time thinking about what to cook for dinner, and also about Major Briggs's greatest fear being the possibility that love is not enough, but I mean these days what is?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I go hard and then I go home
You should message me if
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idk mostly I just want to be stripped bare by art and broken wide open with awe so my heart gets remade into something gleaming, and on fire. So if that seems like a fun time to you then good lord hey let's get a drink or something, you know?