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sashapix

37 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 12:49pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m).
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a feminist, a nerd, and an introvert. You're not going to hear me saying I think we should go rock climbing or camping. I like being in cities. Being too far away from an open bar or restaurant makes me nervous. Because I'm an introvert and because I'm working and schooling full time I spend a lot of my time alone with my cat and I'm pretty okay with that.

I used to say I was like Liz Lemon with a beard, but I think I may be closer to Leslie Knope -- she likes sex.
What I’m doing with my life
I work full time and have also returned to school to get a sociology degree, so I'm doing that more or less full time, too.

I am quitting smoking and I joined a gym.

I'm also spending time hanging out with my cat and eating ice cream.
I’m really good at
* Making people laugh
* Providing way more historical background than anybody really wanted
* Explaining why Star Trek is morally superior to Star Wars.
* Sex stuff
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall, I'm fat, I wear glasses, and I have tattoos. Also? Sexy.

I am also often told that I smell really good. This may be because I spread cookie dough inside my clothes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm not original in asking this, but do any of us actually read this section? It seems to always end up being a wall of text for us to skim over.

Lets just say that I probably really like some things you really like, and I probably like things you don't like. Now we have some stuff to talk about on our first date.

I'll always love Star Trek though. I once stopped talking to a woman who crapped all over Star Trek. That's one of my dealbreakers.

And ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
I think you want to know what things make my life better:
Friends, good conversation, rye whiskey, exciting sex, books, and time to myself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
* Is this a good time to drink whiskey?
* Sexism, racism, homophobia, ableism, classism, transphobia, and other oppressions.
* How to be less awkward.
* How much I want a nap.
* Pie and/or ice cream.
* Sex.
* How to be more funny.
* "Why isn't she impressed by my sweet Star Trek wallet?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing homework or drinking gin and watching PBS. There's probably some interference from my cat involved.

I'd like to have more homework breaks with the right person.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have an account on FetLife with this same username.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You should message me if you think you'd like to get to know me better.

Especially if you like drinking whiskey.