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44 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:18am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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README: If you're about to ask me for casual sex, no, please just no. I'm here looking for someone who wants to be in my life and know my soul. Thank you. [psst I don't have A-list so I don't see you liking me...]

A very long time ago I fell in love with the internet, with the pursuit of slightly out of the ordinary activities (at various times: disc golf, curling, rock climbing, euchre, driving stick, riding dirtbikes, target shooting...) and with books. Some things are a given, life without my niece and nephew isn't worth living; I prefer healthy food to junk, I consider myself deeply open-minded and care a lot about gender issues.

I'm an active human being and I love being outside in all seasons, particularly when the sun is out and the heat is on, and I become miserable if I go too long without at least an afternoon spent outside among trees or natural landscape. There may be nothing sweeter than lolling under a tree at the beach on a sunny day; but if there is it probably involves hiking in the woods, long drives, craft beer or exploring a new (or familiar) place with congenial company.

Now who I'm looking for? A real person looking for a real relationship. The kind of partnership where we both feel lucky, blessed, safe and able to be our vulnerable selves. Also laughter, quiet, adventure and conversation; lots of those.

Warning: I will compulsively try on your glasses or hat and I brake for butterflies.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning zen - really does seem like one of those lifelong quests
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I decided to ask my facebook wall and this is what I got - I know it's repetitive but I also found the repeats funny :):

You're approachable, and easy to be around.



Presence, joy, and laughter.

Tall...very tall

It's definitely hard not to notice the height.

'Amazonian Independence', but you're much more approachable and friendly than that.

Tells it like it is, open minded, great spirit, super honest, what you see is what you get, beautiful, friendly, kind, smart, very funny, awesome to be around... and so much more

Really, really tall.


I like your brain Sassinak.

I noticed your sincerity. You seemed to be one of those rare people who are real without being terse.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a vegetarian and I'm allergic to night shades and mushrooms, but otherwise I like it all.

Also great coffee and good tv and books, all the books. :)
You should message me if
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You like yourself and summer rain and laughter and fitness and holding hands and random conversation about anything?

But mostly you should message me if you're serious. If you are looking for a connection with another human being and you hope to find someone you can learn and grow and partner and care for and be cared for and treasure and laugh and be yourself with; someone to lust and like and love in equal measure. Then you should drop me a line.