Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a slightly oddball girl. I love cats and crafts, comfortably
curled up on my couch. I enjoy odd movies and cuddles. I'm rather
gothy, particularly when dressed for an occasion. My interests are
wide and I love talking about the things that interest me, I find
there is much stimulation in discussing things 'to the absurdity'
and indulging in classic thought experiments. I'm quite curious by
nature and enjoy listening to things that interest others - if
you're passionate about something, I'll happily listen.
I am married to my Master,
) who is my primary
partner in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. He's pretty
awesome and you should totally check him out too.
I am looking forward to expanding my circle of friends. I am not
adverse to more, but i do defer to Husband and seek his approval
before I could contemplate being at someone's mercy.
A relic of earlier OKC days, the three words that describe me are:
unusual, thoughtful, and subby.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have reached a point of material contentment. I have a normal job
that gives me enough to enjoy myself, a husband who pleases me and
weekends to indulge in the things I like.
I have two adorable back kitties whom I love dearly. Master calls
them my witch's cats.
I have recently started collecting and reading Deadpool comics,
while crafting has resurged - helped by having crafty friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading, politics, making bead things, making tea, cooking and
helping people realise their desires.
I am also good at slinking around in various lacey or PVC outfits
looking like an ultimate fetish pirate wench too! This I do tend to
reserve for home, unless I am going to Camden.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My long hair, which I have recently taken to wearing black and
occasionally the clothes I wear when I am feeling confident.
Failing that something weird I'm doing or saying...It's not
normally deliberate as such, its just who i am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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, paula danzinger
or jane austin
that, anything with words. I enjoy reading immensely though often
don't have the time these days, I did manage to get through the
Story of O in two days. Apparently I have found out that when I
deal with physical trauma my ability to cope is related to how near
a book is to me and if I can read it.
I have very few movies that are favourites as I'll watch anything
I'm told to - but I corrupt people with hedwig and the angry
, velvet goldmine
I also am
enjoying more sci fi films as my Husband shows me his movie
Music - anything old but especially alice cooper
I'm also becoming a voltaire
fangirl. I also
like musical comedy such as tim minchin, tom lehrer and weird
Foods - Chocolate! (yes, clichéd, but I love it!) More Chocolate!
Tea, especially Earl Grey, I introduce many people to the concept
of tea beyond Tetleys. I enjoy loose leaf tea in teapots
especially. I'll eat whatever I can be bothered when I can be
bothered. I'm trying not to waste away, I can't do that to myself
I am however loving having my own kitchen and cooking stuff! I keep
getting set baking challenges by a colleague who ends up with
ingredients she has no idea what to do with. It's fun *and* tasty!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good cuddle when needed.
Friends - I know it's cliché but my friends mean the world to me. I
rarely show them enough appreciation or acknowledgement but they
are in my heart and I couldn't do without them.
Books - even as a child I loved books. Apparently when I broke my
ankle I was really shaken and unsteady right up until I had the
chance to get a book out when I immediately calmed and went into
My kittens, they're wonderful.
Inner strength - I've learnt in the last few years that I can have
a lot of this.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is 'good' and 'bad' self worth.
Who am 'I'.
Why people act as they do.
What the future holds.
How wonderful friends can be.
The alternatives to public policy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home crafting or playing with my desires (and those of others).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wish I was a kitten sometimes and dream of having a cute goth
girl I can play with who's mine.
I'm loyal to a fault even when I don't want to be.
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