31 Milton Keynes, UK
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
I'm a slightly oddball girl. I love cats and crafts, comfortably curled up on my couch. I enjoy odd movies and cuddles. I'm rather gothy, particularly when dressed for an occasion. My interests are wide and I love talking about the things that interest me, I find there is much stimulation in discussing things 'to the absurdity' and indulging in classic thought experiments. I'm quite curious by nature and enjoy listening to things that interest others - if you're passionate about something, I'll happily listen.

I am married to my Master, ( who is my primary partner in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. He's pretty awesome and you should totally check him out too.

I am looking forward to expanding my circle of friends. I am not adverse to more, but i do defer to Husband and seek his approval before I could contemplate being at someone's mercy.

A relic of earlier OKC days, the three words that describe me are: unusual, thoughtful, and subby.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a pretty normal 9-5 office job. I have recently gotten a bit of a promotion but know that there isn't really further to go in that direction. It pays the bills and allows me to do things I want to with my spare time.

I have two adorable back kitties whom I love dearly. Master calls them my witch's cats. Their names are a touch unusual, it simply reflects the inner geek as well as suiting their personalities.

I am also getting used to reading comics and my love of crafting has resurged - helped by having crafty friends.
I’m really good at
I'm a mire of low self confidence - so do not really think I'm good at many things. I have crowdsourced this section instead to give you a fair idea.

I'm good at crafts, reading, making tea. "There's lots of very explicit sexual stuff"
I am good at enslaving friends to make bunting, chilling out, introducing people to TV and movies, listening, caring, baking, cooking

I am also good at slinking around in corsets and various lacey or PVC outfits looking like an ultimate fetish pirate wench too! This I do tend to reserve for home, unless I am going out somewhere I won't get treated like a mad leper

My breasts can always tell when it's going to rain
The first things people usually notice about me
My long hair, which I have recently taken to wearing black and occasionally the clothes I wear when I am feeling confident.

Failing that something weird I'm doing or saying...It's not normally deliberate as such, its just who i am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
anything anne rice, L.J smith, paula danzinger or jane austin - failing that, anything with words. I enjoy reading immensely though often don't have the time these days, I did manage to get through the Story of O in two days. Apparently I have found out that when I deal with physical trauma my ability to cope is related to how near a book is to me and if I can read it.

I have very few movies that are favourites as I'll watch anything I'm told to - but I corrupt people with hedwig and the angry inch, velvet goldmine and labyrinth I also am enjoying more sci fi films as my Husband shows me his movie collection.

Music - anything old but especially alice cooper or queen I'm also becoming a voltaire fangirl. I also like musical comedy such as tim minchin, tom lehrer and weird al.

Foods - Chocolate! (yes, clichéd, but I love it!) More Chocolate! Tea, especially Earl Grey, I introduce many people to the concept of tea beyond Tetleys. I enjoy loose leaf tea in teapots especially. I'll eat whatever I can be bothered when I can be bothered. I'm trying not to waste away, I can't do that to myself accidentally again.

I am however loving having my own kitchen and cooking stuff! I keep getting set baking challenges by a colleague who ends up with ingredients she has no idea what to do with. It's fun *and* tasty!
The six things I could never do without
A good cuddle when needed.

Friends - I know it's cliché but my friends mean the world to me. I rarely show them enough appreciation or acknowledgement but they are in my heart and I couldn't do without them.

Books - even as a child I loved books. Apparently when I broke my ankle I was really shaken and unsteady right up until I had the chance to get a book out when I immediately calmed and went into another world.

My kittens, they're wonderful.

Inner strength - I've learnt in the last few years that I can have a lot of this.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is 'good' and 'bad' self worth.

Who am 'I'.

Why people act as they do.

What the future holds.

How wonderful friends can be.

The alternatives to public policy.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home crafting or playing with my desires (and those of others).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish I was a kitten sometimes and dream of having a cute goth girl whom I can have all sorts of fun with

I'm loyal to a fault even when I don't want to be.
You should message me if
You want to?

Seriously, I'm pretty bad at chatting through text, I'm shy and afraid of being easily misinterpreted. If you want a friend or submissive, let me know, tell me about yourself.