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sassyldy4u

45 / F / straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

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5' 4" (1.62m).
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New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and laughing about it
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Leo
Education
Graduated from college/university
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Law / Legal Services
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Rather not say
Kids
Has children
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Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am adventurous, confident, and compassionate.

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My Self-Summary

I am a free-spirited, down-to-earth person. I love to try new things and to be present in all that I do.

I appreciate differences in others and individual points of view. I am not always "PC" and have a low tolerance of those who dare not speak their mind or take action.

I love travel, exploring other cultures, [boating], swimming, tubing (pretty much anything in or on the [water], [warm sunny places], bonfires, hiking, camping, museums, [live music], theater, and [road trips] to name a few.

I've tried parasailing but have yet to try skydiving (care to give me a nudge or shall I await your answer after we meet?). Hmmmm, I believe I just set myself up for that one. Just remember gentleman, I am NOT your ex!

What I’m doing with my life

Writing and re-writing a mystery novel, teaching my two wonderful daughters (twins) about the world, gearing up for going back for my masters degree, and trying to figure out a way to eventually live in a house that will float wherever in the world the tide takes me. Although, I am directionally impaired so who knows where I may end up........where are you Mon Capitan?

I’m really good at

Procrastinating, listening, offering advice (solicited or not), reading people, singing in the shower (occasionally on stage), being politically incorrect, figuring out how to get around "red-taped" BS, and finding my keys (lots of practice there).

The first things people usually notice about me

Hmmmm probably my eyes and my wit or that I look like someone they know. I hear that just about everywhere I go - one lady even made me show my ID to prove I wasn't her cousin! I was also hugged and kissed by a lady in a Buddhist Temple in Hawaii. She thought I was somebody else....

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books - too many to mention! My favorites are mysteries and biographies but I will read just about anything. I recently read "Maiden Voyage" by Tania Aebi, the first American woman and youngest ever to sail around the world alone (she was 17)- what an amazing adventure! "Ishmael" by Daniel Quinn is another one of my faves - not exactly a light read unless you know any philosophical gorillas who speak English.

Music - Classic Rock, Jazz, Blues.....pretty much anthing but Rap or truly sappy Country (some is ok but I can't tolerate the whiney stuff).

Food - seafood, thai, tapas, and greek are my faves but if its just me, its usually whatever I have in the fridge to put in a salad. I'm a pretty good cook but havent cooked a lot of the fun stuff lately. Maybe you can assist?

The six things I could never do without

My family
Music
Being on the water
Love
A positive attitude

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to help make the world a better place, where the hell I put my keys and where my next adventure may lead me.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either home with my daughters and writing into the wee hours after they go to bed or out on the town with a friend. Unless its summer....then I am in front of a bonfire after a full day of boating, swimming and tubing!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Every spring I write a letter about the happenings in my life for the year and bury it someplace new and different. They are pretty much buried all over the country and one (so far) in Greece so if you stumble upon one, it's MINE! I figure I will go back and collect them when I'm old and grey - perhaps as a measurement of the wisdom I hope to gain throughout the years -but for sure a wild and fond ride down memory lane.

You should message me if

You are not into games, you know what you want and are looking for more than just friends with benefits.

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