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sassyopera

27 Saint Louis, MO Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:13pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Curvy
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Management
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am fire, I am passion, I am light. But also an indominatable force of calm. And a total goof. If you were looking for someone simple, easy, and predictable, keep moving. I'm looking for my next great adventure, be it the sort that lasts a day, a month, or the rest of my life. I've been called many things, but never boring. If that's your bag, then let's have conversations about the nature of man into the wee hours of the morning and watch a sunrise together. Let's see some live music (literally very nearly any kind, be it a musical, bluegrass, opera, indie, jazz, blues, rock, experimental, whatever) and laugh until our faces hurt from smiling so much. Show me my next favorite St. Louis neighborhood. Take me to try a cuisine I've never had (good luck on that; I'd actually be pretty impressed if you came up with something new). Nature, music, art, and literature feed my soul. If you nourish my cravings, I guarantee we'll be lifelong friends, because I like to surround myself with interesting humans. Beyond that? I have a big ol' nurturing, loving heart, so we'll just have to see what happens.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Running in the rain whenever possible, and trying to satisfy my wanderlust.

I'm an old soul who seeks like-minded individuals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-making plans on the fly
-singing
-being ageless
-getting told secrets, including from strangers
-finding the words that you lost
-putting people at ease
-seeking out stories (a lot of my life choices are made around this, actually, because I can't help myself; sometimes I just have to see if certain people or things really exist)
-keeping 'em guessing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The sparkle in my eyes. I'm not guessing here; this is what I've been told on many occasions.

People who meet me in real life usually don't quite know what to make of me at first. I guess I don't easily fit into their preconceived ideas of the types of persons? Or maybe I'm just not what they expected? But I get a lot of people just staring at me with an amused grin, like they're trying to figure me out and have no idea where to begin... including babies and small children. They stare a lot, like to the point where parents notice and look at me to see what I'm doing (the answer is that I'm literally just sitting there like a human, maybe smiling) and then make some awkward joke to their kid like, "Aw, are you flirting with that girl?" Um. What? But seriously, if you have any theories on this, I'd be happy to hear them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Björk, Amelie, Alton Brown, Dvorak, Debussy, Puccini (a soprano who likes Puccini... Shocking, I know...), Dali (why can't I list art?), Mad Men, Dr. Who (I'm a recent convert), dystopian novels, The Alchemist, The Little Prince, The Civil Wars, and Catch-22 (and Oxford commas, apparently, as I've just noticed...).

***Buddy Wakefield*** (spoken word) Oh my gosh, he came to St. Louis, and it was one of the most inspirational experiences of my life.

Basically, I like any art that moves me.

Foodwise, I love trying new restaurants of any type. I love things rare or raw, which includes rare lamb burgers, steak or tuna tartare, and sushi, like every other person on OkCupid. I've recently gotten on a butternut squash kick. I made ravioli for my mama when she was sick (awww...).

I love walking/hiking in parks: Forest Park, Castlewood, Creve Coeur Lake, Lone Elk,Pickle Springs, and so forth. Send me your favorite that isn't on the list!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.) a sound and curious mind

2.) water
I grew up on a lake (a real, natural one, not any of that man-made Ozarks stuff) and by the ocean, so being land-locked in Missouri is a bit of a struggle for me

3.) access to knowledge and new ideas
It could be the internet, it could be talks at museums, it could be drunk old men in bars, it could be books, but I need to know things and I need my ideas to be shaken up and challenged.

4.) a way to express myself
The urge most often manifests itself as either singing or writing, but I've been compelled to find various creative outlets from a young age and I've found that I'm healthiest when I have a means to create.

5.) people to love
My family is hilarious, and they keep me grounded and on track. My friends have been there for me through a lot. I have an overflowing, giving heart, and I need to be able to love.

6.) a sense of humor
My ability to laugh at stressful situations and not take myself too seriously has carried me through a lot of tough times.

If you said, "Air, food, water, shelter, that's it," or some such variation, well... you're completely missing the spirit of the question, now aren't you? I haven't learned anything about you except that you're very literal and not the least bit creative. You're not better than anyone for not being materialistic; you're just boring. So please don't message me. Kisses!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...how "a single action can cause a life to veer off in a direction it was never meant to go"
...etymology
...how hypocritical it is for me to be judgmental of judgmental people
...how so much of society is determined by tradition, and how different things would be if people stopped and questioned the logical validity of the things that they do because "that's just how it's done"
... why people with a 62% match percentage message me with, "Hey, looks like we have a high match percentage. Wanna talk?" Really? "High"?! That's a low D!
...the fluidity of time
... how I can make my interactions with people more genuine
... the cycle of poverty (I see a lot that makes me very sad)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing any number of things. I make my fun wherever I am.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to shower with my window open.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are moved by art, music, literature, a beautiful landscape, clever graffiti, dance, anything, and often get the sense that you feel much more than other people, please message me. I don't care about any potential limitations. I'd love to meet a kindred passionate soul.