I am polyamorous and currently in an honest, open relationship with daring2explore. This is not subject to change so if you want to meet me you will eventually meet her. No, I'm not cheating. No, I'm not giving myself permission to play around. No, you won't have to date both of us. Yes, she is okay with this and will have full knowledge. If you're interested in anything more than a friendship, you will need to be okay with this as well. While I'd love to find a beautiful secondary for myself, I wouldn't mind someone who fits both me and my partner's diverse personalities and interests. Those of you experienced with polyamory and open-relationships are welcome to reply although it's certainly not a requirement to just be friends. My lover and I can respect the beauty in each other's differences and we hope you can as well.
I'm also not going to carpetbomb you with one-liners or barely coherent proposals which tell you nothing about me. You won't receive unsolicited requests for sex or be assaulted with pictures of my best friend (I'm proud enough of it not to inflict it on strangers).
What is more important is that you're sweet, non-judgmental, open-minded, and adventurous. While I have no problem explaining what the poly lifestyle means to me and what I want, those of you who feel compelled to comment negatively about various forms of consensual non-monogamy has probably never had an honest relationship in their life. It takes a great deal of honesty, trust and commitment. We are open about each other's feelings and sexuality and you should be as well.