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satindown

37 M Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:46am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
University
Job
Education
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I keep re-writing this. How to summarize yourself?

I laugh every day. I am awed by life and genuinely grateful.

Art is a big thing for me - I draw, write, or assemble images every day. A life without the creative would resemble the innards of a Wal-Mart.

Nice women who are genuinely kind and caring will find me a genuinely kind and caring guy. Intuitive and artistic and politically left and animal and kid loving and passionate would be gravy.

I love nature and feel the most centered there. I also love city living and all it offers.

Jupiter is nice too though the commute is hell.
What I’m doing with my life
I handle library operations and assist researchers at a large university. I create subversive art to provoke and challenge myself and random strangers. I'm trying to get published.
I’m really good at
Images - collage, photography. Cartooning.

Back rubs.

I'm a cat-whisperer.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told my eyes by several very breathtaking optometrists.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Hemmingway, Tolkien, Margaret Atwood, Cormac McCarthy, Russell Banks, Chuck Palahniuk, John Fante, Brett Easton Ellis, Jim Carroll, Frank Lima, Bukowski, Hubert Selby, Milan Kundera, Raymond Carver, Noam Chomsky, Naomi Klein, Stephen King, Herman Hesse, Edith Warton.

Movies:
400 Blows
Pather Panchali
Monty Python and...
Gummo
Lawrence of Arabia
Drugstore Cowboy
Coen Brothers stuff
Werner Herzog
French New Wave!

Music:
Sonic Youth, Bob Dylan, Jesus Lizard, The Wipers, Big Black, Lou Reed, Pixies, Dinosaur Jr., Swans, Eels, Mark Lanegan, Nirvana, Misfits, Pogues, Social Distortion, Melvins, The Fall, Richard Thompson, Roky Erickson, PJ Harvey, Cat Power, Lou Reed, Elliott Smith, Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, Nick Drake, Grinderman, Mazzy Star, My Bloody Valentine, Sonics, Shangrilas, Universal People, Curtis Mayfield, X, Mark Lanegan, Tom Waits, Mission of Burma, Brian Jonestown Massacre, Leadbelly, Jesus and Mary Chain, Christian Death, Lucinda Williams, Steve Earle.

Shows:
Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Portlandia, Nurse Jackie, Downton Abbey, Kids in the Hall, Californication, MST3K, Big Bang Theory.

Food:
Everything.
The six things I could never do without
My three nephews provide me with so much - I feel very lucky to get to be in their lives.
Art - including movies, books, music, etc. etc.
The next trip.
Laughter
Friends
Passion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The nature of self-delusion in humans in power, how one can hold two completely contradictory notions without having a complete mental breakdown.

True spirituality and how to put that into practice in a meaningful way.

Also: collage and drawing - what images work to spark, inflame, or entertain.
On a typical Friday night I am
Often having drinks with friends. Live music. Seeing movies. Trying new restaurants. Locked in heated battle with the sketchbook.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believed in Santa approximately two years longer than the other kids.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are passionate about something. Capable of intimacy. You feel gratitude for the good things. You value emotional intelligence. You like pinball.