I have this crazy fantasy that one day, someone will be able to look past my mistakes and imperfections and still think I'm worth it all. Is it really that crazy or do you think you can make it realistic for me?
While I may have a handful of flaws that I'm trying to work on, I have many admirable traits that make me worth your time. I'm really open about myself and can be interesting. I'm romantic, affectionate, can cheer people up, and calm them down. I'm playful and outdoorsy. I have a diverse set of tastes and like fun and interesting subjects. I'm also in beautiful shape and don't have sex with just anyone.
*I have a polychronic ability to do numerous tasks at once, disordered work environments are my thing!
*Dark humor and pessimism. If you're the overly optimistic type, or someone who gets offended easily, we probably won't work out.
Music: Indie rock (Pinback, Systems Officer, Modest Mouse, Ugly Casanova, Built to Spill, Spoon, TV on the Radio, Apostle of Hustle, Yeasayer), Trip hop (Portishead, Waldeck, Hooverphonic, Flunk, Bittersweet), Ambient/electronic (Amon Tobin, Caribou, Anitek, Bonobo, Crookram, Royksopp, Neon Indian, Fakear), Alternative (Sonic Youth, Deftones, Nine Inch Nails, Smashing Pumpkins, Cursive, Archers of Loaf).
2. Green tea - I swear, l-theanine cures everything from anxiety, caffeine jitters, to menstrual cramps.
3. Ritalin - For my terrible attention span and inability to sit down and complete a rigorous research paper.
4. Botany - When the snow melts, I practically live outdoors. I love hiking, kayaking, and bicycling.
My political thoughts are pretty capitalistic. I'm into furthering myself as an individual due to my competitive nature. If individuals in society weren't able to advance to the extent that they can, intellectual drive and innovation would disappear.
My academic pursuit is psychology, with my favorite psychologist being Carl Jung. He realized that common symbols and themes appeared in all cultures, and that the same responses could be elicited by certain circumstances. Instead of focusing on individualism, it's essential to realize how inter-connected we are.
I'm really into androgynous men, physically and personality-wise. That whole typical, alpha-male thing creeps me out. Muscles, sports, and all those other manly interests are such a turn-off. A significant other who can cry once in a while, talk about emotions, and listen to some girly tunes is ideal. A significant other who can grow his hair out and feel comfortable in tight-fitting clothing is incredibly attractive.
My cardinal trait is intimacy. It's my reason for living, my purpose in life. I need a man whose emotions run deep: a painter, a writer, or something. Someone who desires passionate, intense love and can spend infinite hours with me. I'm a hopeless romantic who falls hard real quick and grows to like people more and more by each day that goes by. I don't want a random, sexual encounter. I want to settle down, in a long-term, committed relationship with someone I can grab onto and grow with.
Note: I won't respond to your one sentence, generic message. I only respond to those who type up fully developed paragraphs.