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45 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
"One's destination is never a place but a new way of
looking at things". -Henry Miller

"Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors where there were only walls" -Joseph Campbell

Personally I am :

* Looking for opportunities to grow

* Meeting new people......

* Learning new things.....

* Laughing and living .......

* Getting back to my creative roots....

* Knowing what I want and having a plan to get there.

I am both intense and carefree; well educated and fun.

I enjoy living life out loud.

I love the outdoors and all the riches that come with living in Oregon; the beach, the mountains, the valley, lakes, rivers ,all the great towns, the wonderful food, the world class libations, an accessible & vibrant arts and music scene .

There is so much to explore right here in our backyard and then there is travel and other cultures, I want to continue to explore this and so much more and while totally comfortable spending time with myself, I think it's better to have someone to share and experience lifes explorations!
What I’m doing with my life
Running my own Business.
Learning, Laughing and Having Fun.

"The aim of life is to live, and to live means to be aware; joyously, drunkenly, serenely, divinely aware"
~ Henry Miller
I’m really good at
* Cooking
* Eating & drinking (all sorts of food with all sorts of wine& beer)
* Planning great outings (in the outdoors as well as around town)
* Listening to others
* Caring
The first things people usually notice about me
My energy, smile & eyes...or so I'm told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
vonnegut; kerouac; j.d. salinger; hemmingway, f.scott fitzgerald; camus; hunter s. thompson; cormac mc carthy; william gibson; graham greene; aldous huxley; james baldwin; steinbeck, joseph cambell, henry miller, bukowski, barbara kingsolver; tom robbins; annie proulx; anne pachett; robert pirsig(zen and the art of motorcycle); david Sedaris et al;.........

and so many great movies... and music

I love music, it can and does set the tone for your day/moment.

I owned a live music venue/ pub and we hosted local, regional and national acts-across all genre

I like to listen to music and go to shows; I'm willing to travel to hear what I want to hear when I want to hear it ...( within reason)

I love watching live dance & theater

I enjoy tasting beer & wine and talking to those that make it.

In fact I think that people who take the time to express themselves artistically are fascinating ( cooks, winemakers, brewers , dancers,actors, artrist, artisans, performers..etc.)

Good food with nice music and good friends, ah now thats livin'......

Food wise most anything e.g. italian,spanish(tapas), all kinds of seafood, cheeses, cuban, thai, sushi, lebeneese, vietnameese, chinese, greek , french, mexican, bbq, southern hi and lo country , peruvian , modern american farm to table, classic american...etc -however, no insects, or super slimy sea stuff and no no no to liver!

We are blessed to live in an area with such a lush culinary landscape. The beer, The wine, The food ...OH MY!!
I love dining out...and yet it is one of those activities that is better shared than alone.....alas the quest for a dinner date.
The six things I could never do without
family & friends
good conversation
cooking for other people (good food w/great atmosphere)
water (to drink,to play in, help things grow...)
mountains,lakes,rivers and oceans to explore
I spend a lot of time thinking about
**see all of the above**

...specifically though;

How to be great.
How to better relate and connect with people and their ideas.

TIME and how it starts and stops, freezes and explodes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing after a long work week.. cooking, eating and talking with friends....... and wine, don't forget the wine (ok! sometimes its beer and/or burbon). Perhaps going out to a show or performance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't quite grasp this online dating thing
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to.....
...explore the world that surrounds us
...climb mountians, sail, ski, snowshoe, hike, go canoeing
...drink wine, beer & whiskey well & have fun new people
...spend quiet time with someone around
...have a friend to talk to or go out with
...spend time growing and learning ...
...pursue a relationship if things work out that way but would be ok
with establishing friendships regardless.....You get the idea right?