Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First of all, if I write to you it's because I'm interested in an
honest and genuine way. No spam contacting, no insecurities to be
quelled and no games to be played of course. If it was a matter of
wanting, want I want is simple; I want someone to actively
participate in my life (and vice-versa), someone that I'm naturally
attracted to (and vice-versa) and of course someone with a good
heart. Is there any other way?
I’m creative, open minded, down to earth –easy to talk to- and
appreciative of life and people. At the level of a first meeting I
would say that I’m an interested and very active person. I’m in a
very challenging, competitive and forever innovative business that
keeps me young and on my toes. I’m professionally occupied and
intellectually engaged yes but I will always have time for a friend
and nothing could me more important to me than discovering someone
precious to share the magic of life with. I’m forever intrigued and
interested in learning and discovering and nothing could possibly
more interesting than you…
But as fun as it could be, this is not just an exploration game as
I do cherish so much the beauty of what a relationship is and what
being a couple means. I'm looking for a real partner and team
player; someone to share, make noise and conquer with, someone
special also to be quiet with, feel close... and find peace.
Sure I’m passionate, intimate and romantic -and there’s a lot more
about me as I suspect that there’s a lot more about you- but I
consider those things to be private, the kind of things to be
discovered between two people who like each other and are growing
I’m homesick for a place that I have never been... Longing for
someone that I’ve never met.
About my date: Someone who provokes my thinking and my imagination
and who likes to be provoked in the same way. Of course physical
attraction is important but it is not the only thing. I appreciate
good company and a good conversation casual or otherwise. And I
would always have time and cherish friendships.
Someone (female) who would write something like this...
"The people I am most drawn to are emotionally engaging and
intellectually curious. They're in touch with their bodies and are
sensual beings. I almost hate to use the term because it elicits
the "wrong" responses, but it is fitting."
I do have a sense of humor of course, but this "presenting myself
to the world" in a cold resume-like format it's not that funny and
it feels uptight. I'm far more "lightheaded" in person and more
whiling to laugh and be in the moment.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Aside from the ongoings of staying on top on the technical stuff
I've set time aside to be an "artist artist" again. Meditation was
"too boring" and unproductive for me (lol), but drawing and going
through the creative process works like a charm. Art is my natural
center and not only I'm more centered now than ever before, but I
found out that the art actually helps others to fine center in
themselves. I'm fine where I'm lately, being with oneself for
periods of time is healthy, but I'm a sharing person by nature and
I cant help but to feel that something fundamental is missing (as
per nature's master design).
Personally I'm comfortable where I'm spiritually and emotionally, I
have good friends, great kids (although a bit scatter at the
moment), but -and perhaps like you- I'm looking for that someone
special to partner and share life experiences with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Professionally I'm a well accomplish artist and business
entrepreneur and I make a living out of using my imagination. I'm
good at visualizing things and making them happen, be it a movie, a
comic book or a videogame. I'm an independent developer and I have
my own company, but I'm now concentrating in "developing" my art's
depth, meaning and reach.
Socially I'm very good at not arguing, about having an opinion and
making a point, but without forcing it on anyone. Logic and common
sense rain supreme and if you have a more intelligent insight than
mine then i'll be eager to adopt it and add it into my life. "The
best form of persuasion is the one that does nor require for the
other person to be persuaded... at all"
I'm attentive, responsive and affectionate... and quite a romantic
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
eyes perhaps (they say), intensity with calmness, quiet
confidence... don't know, you tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
-love and appreciate "good food" of any kind, but more of a tapas
bite and taste than just filling up... and exploring and sharing
with some one who enjoys it as much as i do.
-broad in the music front but with an inclination towards
rebellious energy (with some melody and/or smart lyrics).
-last read, "the last lecture" (randy pausch)
-best and most enlightening "a stroke of inside" (by Jill
-no time to read fiction or literature (this days).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, food and hope... and then beauty, intellectual stimulation,
creativity, animals, nature, friends, good coffee, true love (for
extended periods of time), a heart... and silly questions like
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
worse question yet... i mean really.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're looking for a true partner and not just a free ride, someone
to bond with, someone special to grip and hold on to... for the
best-yet ride of our lives. I'm a gentlemen and I will treat you as
such in substance and stile, I'll be the man, treat you like a lady
and take care of things (if that pleases you), BUT NEVER EVER at
the expense of true closeness, true friendship and a meaningful
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