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23 M Alma, MI

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Yesterday – 7:24am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Close your eyes. Somewhere quiet if you can. It doesn't need to be some still moonlit field or church; the point I want you to realize is that there is a vastness in you you can't completely fathom and that's pretty amazing.

Now consider that there are others like you - self-contained beings (beings!) and that you can know them in ways vast and varied with little amplitudes and frequencies and symbols that with which we can convey things that otherwise would be isolated in our own consciousnesses. Little things that have no intrinsic meanings but the ones we give them so we can contact other people in other times with pictures we can't see, words we can't hear. The smell of rain. The sound of sincerity. Butterflies in your stomach.

This is why I
love language.

I began writing in kindergarten or first grade (mostly plagiarisms of a sort), and it's still very fulfilling, if not easy. I started tons of "novels" as a kid that generally made it no farther than page five.

I've always loved the fantastic, be it Animorphs (Does anybody else remember those? I guess that I dropped the series at around book forty, and I still want to know how it ends!), Pokemon (Red and Blue, 'cause I guess Americans dislike green XD), Harry Potter, Magic: the Gathering, or a fantasy novel read under my desk, because after a while my teachers learned I was still paying attention.

I’m passionate about certain other things, but I find disagreement exhilarating. I love intellectual conversation interspersed with quippishness and maybe a touch of sarcasm.

I’m a total sap, but be not deceived into thinking I'm a pushover; I choose my battles. I don't want to die on every hill.

The OKC Bot says I'm a good guy who'll try to be ready with a shoulder when you cry and chicken soup when you have a cold. I'll keep my pants on, though, until I'm okay with having offspring.

Oh - I am an agnostic atheist, but I'll respect your right to believe what you do.

I might stop there and leave you wanting more (because I'm such a tease), but you may continue.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm at Alma College studying new media. It's a vague term to cover web design, image/audio/video manipulation, social networking, etc. I dream of being a writer (well, a paid one). My career plan is to try to get hired as a librarian, though I might need a master's degree.
I’m really good at
Science, English, trivia, "Catchprase," puzzles, unintentional arson...
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm for the moment handicapped and I have a chameleon eye. I walk with a cane. After they talk to me, they might notice I like five-dollar words, sarcasm, odd jokes, and correcting people's grammar. A pie chart of my humor would show 44% dry wit, 23% goofy, 18% bizarre, and 5% blueberry. But I'd rather have my aunt's cheesecake, and I'm very familiar with cheese.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(in the order I thought of them)
Books, especially ones with complex, deep characters and plots.
Fantasy: anything by Garth Nix, the Mistborn trilogy, the Harry Potter series
Sci-fi: Philip K. Dick is a genius. Orson Scott Card.
Humor: The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
Classics: 1984, Lord of the Flies, To Kill a Mockingbird.
Poetry that shows you something new about something you already know or something you already know about something new. Emily Dickinson, Sylvia Plath, e. e. cummings

TV: not much.

Movies: Casablanca, 12 Angry Men, Les Miserables (I haven't seen the new one, mind.), The Sixth Sense, Unbreakable, Signs, The Village, Once. Action, thrillers, classics, (clean) comedy, and indie flicks.

Music: old Evanescence, Paramore, Breaking Benjamin, Hey Monday, The Hush Sound, Blue October, classical, movie soundtracks, techno/trance/electronica, lounge, jazz, and dubstep. I'll think about it all day if it's lyrically interesting and my subconscious won't let it go if it's catchy.

Food: Yes. But seriously, Italian, Chinese, Mexican, whatever. And cheesecake.
The six things I could never do without
(besides biological necessities etc)
Love (which might iiself be a biological necessity)
Composition book
Blue or black pen
Good books
Did I mention cheesecake? Aw, that's seven....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I love philosophy. I'm particularly interested in ethics, metaphysics, and what science has to shed on those topics, but that's about the extent of my experience with quantum mechanics. Plots, people, poems, songs, the big questions, meanings and layers of innocuous quotes, conversations I might never have, a change in the dialogue or story of what I'm reading or watching, and ways to reinterpret rules. Also, I play with an imaginary compass.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing homework *cough*, very diligently.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm secretly an initiate in the cult of Lord Smooze.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You need an ear and/or a shoulder, or you want someone with whom to watch a movie, fly paper airplanes with nice messages at library-goers, make up stories about passers-by, get feedback on your artz, or almost anything else.

Don't say only "Hi" or "What's up?" And if you're religious, only contact me if you'd be cool with someday marrying an agnostic atheist. I'll respect your right to believe, though.

No sexual advances on me.