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26 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 26–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:38am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe it was Kierkegaard who said, “Once you label me, you negate me.” I support this idea, but since I have only a couple short paragraphs to describe myself, and you may find test results helpful, I’m happy to make an exception.

Myers-Briggs: ENFJ – this may have meaning for you.

StrengthsFinder: Learner, Restorative, Context – this may have meaning for you.

Sign: Scorpio – I hope this doesn’t mean anything to you.

I’m fascinated with human behavior. Why do we do what we do? I like examining the past to understand the present and predict the future, which makes evolutionary psychology particularly interesting to me. As a psychology major, I was once interested in pursuing a PhD in Clinical Psychology, but realized that the stereotype of psychology research being an ivory tower is somewhat true. I’m more interested in improving people’s quality of life on a day-to-day basis, and I hope in a few years to start an MBA program emphasizing in organizational leadership or an I.O. psychology program.

I would describe myself as lively and saucy. I laugh easily and at most things. Teasing is my family's language, so I rarely take myself seriously. An OKCupid test described my sense of humor as "the Shock Jock", which my friends will attest to being true. Being quiet has never been a strength of mine. I love meeting and getting to know new people, though sometimes I have to push through my nervousness to try something new.
I like being around people who inspire me to be healthier and try new things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in higher education
Thinking about the future
Spending as much time with my bestie as possible
Trying to commit to biking to work
Helping my little brother learn to drive
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Imagining what could be
- Coming up with funny, different lyrics for songs
- Not taking myself too seriously
- Quoting movies and shows
- Appreciating the quirkiness of others
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have freckles and blue eyes, and I look a lot like someone they know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Catcher in the Rye (I know, cliche), High Fidelity, The Female Brain (completely fascinating book by neuropsychologist Louann Brizendine), A Clockwork Orange (Recently, I started reading more, so hopefully I'll have more to add!)

Shows: Battlestar Galactica, Rick and Morty, House, Downton Abbey, Family Guy, Soap

Movies: Kung Fu Panda, The Big Lebowski, Fight Club, Howls Moving Castle, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Wayne's World except for the ending

I love sushi and Indian food. Is that too trite?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, family, gluten-free lasagna, my kindle, my watch (I really love my watch for some reason that goes beyond knowing the time), and a comfortable bed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* What the future holds
* Movie/show quotes
* Whether a woman will ever be president
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time relaxing with my favorite people after a busy week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
* I wish I had a dog
* I pay close attention to grammar. Weird Al's "Word Crimes" made me laugh pretty hard
* I've poured myself just OJ and feigned that it was a screwdriver to avoid the spanish inquisition over why I'm not drinking at a party.
You should message me if
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-You have something you're passionate about that you're happy to share with me.
-You read an interesting psychology article and want to talk about it.
-Making the world a better place is important to you.
-You're good at finding the best in people.
-You understand feminism (or perhaps would like me to explain a bit!)