Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love sunshine and the idea of driving down long windy roads like
I tell people I'm from New York, but before living there I moved
around many countries as a kid. Never really felt at home anywhere
until SF. Before moving here I attended a large college in a cold
Midwestern state and also studied abroad in/visited Europe and Asia
over the years. I never found the time to learn how to drive,
though it's always something that's on the to-do list, if only to
enjoy driving down the coast. :-)
People who know me well say I'm adaptable and am always striving to
evolve. I think in terms of the growth mindset and am unreasonable
about things when they truly matter. Otherwise I'm a go with the
flow, chill type of person.
Talking to people about their aspirations and goals is fascinating.
Everyone has a responsibility to leave the world better than they
found it in some (small or big) way, and it is an individual
responsibility to figure out how to make that contribution. I moved
to California to figure out what that is and work on it.
“Dignity comes from using your inherent human resources, by doing
things with your own bare hands-on the spot, properly.”
— Chogyam Trungpa
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in the tech industry. If you care to know more, I would be
glad to tell you all about it in person. If you DON'T care to know
more, I'm more than happy to leave it at that. The choice is
I also collaborate on lots of techie side projects with friends,
and travel for work and conferences.
My secret dream is to become a champion boxer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being on time, nice saves, and I always win Olympic Gold for
overthinking any given situation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Rainer Maria Rilke, Douglas Coupland, Dune by Frank Herbert, Cloud
Atlas by David Mitchell. The Pale King by David Foster Wallace. I
read lots of psychology, and business books.
Homeland, Mad Men, House of Cards, The Mentalist, Seinfeld, and
Collateral, American Beauty, Matchstick Men, Minority Report,
Insomnia, The Italian Job, My Blueberry Nights, The Pursuit of
Happyness, Secret in their Eyes (Argentina), Inception, and 2046
I like to cook but hate doing it alone.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family & friends, California sunsets, memories of good times, a
moleskine notebook, macadamia nuts, and philz coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I observe the environment around me and what people around me are
doing. It's so fascinating to notice little details about others.
Also, makes it easy to give genuine compliments.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I never had a driver's license. Ever. Taking the permit test this
month so wish me luck.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're down for
- Riding with me on a motorcycle down to San Luis Obispo for a
- Taking a sailing class
- Watching me fight my first amateur boxing match in 3 months
- Getting lost in some random city for a couple of days
- Joining me in making a fool out of myself at a skateboarding
- Racing fancy cars at Laguna Seca (I just need to learn how to
or you just want to chat over coffee / ice cream / wine / beer
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