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savingtheday

21 / M / gay / Single

New York, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am bored, at work, and online now!.

My Self-Summary

My name is Paul. I am a chill braux fresh outta college, working at a job I don't particularly like and without any specific plans to advance my future. I have a mind for science and love learning about most fields; I was a biochemistry major in college. I would be down to watch the Discovery Channel any time of day, especially when stoned. Unless Cash Cab is on, then no weed, all bets are off, and we begin hand-to-hand combat. I've considered quitting my job and picking a street corner and waiting for the Cash Cab all day as a career option.
I like relaxing a lot, and cherish downtime by myself. When I am out or with a group of friends, I like to command the attention and make people laugh. I like to make people uncomfortable for my own entertainment, but not in a sadistic way.

What I’m doing with my life

Living in Spanish Harlem, working full-time in Astoria, kind of taking it easy until I figure out what I want badly enough to motivate myself to do it. In the mean time, just hanging out with friends, going out on weekends, playing Yahoo! Pool, the usual. I might want to be a doctor; I thought I wanted to do lab research but changed my mind after doing it for a year. Another real passion lies in music; playing piano and singing, somewhat playing the guitar, and writing music. I want to be Lord GaGa and use my celebrity to further human rights movements. I hope she's okay with me ripping her off like that, since it's for the greater good.

I’m really good at

typing, trivia, playing (morbid) practical jokes on friends and forgetting to mention that I was joking, commenting to random people in the street when I'm drunk, doing impressions of Creed, most of whose lyrics I surprisingly and unhappily find myself knowing

The first things people usually notice about me

Do people usually tell you the first thing they notice about you when you meet them? Is this a social norm? Who are you hanging out with?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: The King Must Die, Life of Pi, A God of Small Things, The Catcher in the Rye... to be honest, it's not that I don't read much, but I never finish books. Plus I don't really read that much.

Movies: I like movies that make me cry. These range from The Pianist to Home Alone 2 (much more heavy-hearted than its prequel).

Music: Jay-Z, Lady GaGa, Kanye, Discovery, Tegan and Sara, The Beatles, Ben Folds Five, Jason Mraz, Amy Winehouse, Beyonce, Lauryn Hill, Daft Punk, John Legend... I have respect for good vocals, so often a good singer can transcend the genre, also.

Food: I'll eat anything. I think I'm always in the mood for everything. I guess I can never say no to chicken parmagiana, or something with guacamole on it. Or guacamole without anything else.

The six things I could never do without

1. Family/friends
2. Money, dirty money
3. Room to grow
4. Spontaneity of some kind
5. Piano
6. My kitties

I spend a lot of time thinking about

To quote Bridezillas: "I don't think, I know. Thinking is for people who have no brains."

On a typical Friday night I am

...doing any number of things, the majority of which involve drinking and going out with friends, but sometimes I stay in and watch 8 hours of HBO OnDemand.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I sometimes shit like 4 times a day. Oh... is this premature?

You should message me if

Just message me, unless you're only going to say "Hey, what's up?" because if that's all you can come up with I don't think it's going to work out. Oh, and if you're not into any random encounter bullshit. Also, if you think that getting Last Man on the Earth in that fucking Dating Persona quiz is BULLSHIT.